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Question about female sex drive sudden changes.?
My gf and I were somewhat sexually active.. Before, we made love like nearly every single day. And for a couple of months, due to our busy schedule, we were able to at least did it twice or thrice a week. However, she is on a bit of an average side (not too lean) and she didn't like. So recently, she's on a somewhat strict diet and exercise. She has been losing several pounds and suddenly her sex drive is gone. She's no longer horny and we haven't done it for month... However, there's nothing wrong w/ her.. she acts very normal. Have any of the female here gone thru this? Is there actually something wrong?
13 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Beware of strict diets especially if she is taking pills. Both can effect her hormones and libido. Also if she has gone diet crazy she may just be feeling very self conscious. Let her know how beautiful she is no matter what her size so long as she is healthy.
- 1 decade ago
I would think that maybe it is the diet. She should drink plenty of fluids and eat healthy....not eat mini meals. Maybe from the excersing she is tired and or stressed. I know when I went on my diet I was not doing it right and to be honest my man was a little upset with me that there was not a whole lotta loving going on either. Maybe if you made her a meal that she likes that is still in her things she will eat on the diet and hav soft music, and candles maybe she will relax and hmmmm maybe you will get the lovin you have been missing. GET her RELAXED!!!!!
- 1 decade ago
Is she using diet pills? Medication? These can effect her sex drive. Also, if she isn't eating very much, to lose the weight, she may not have the stamina to be sexually active. Before accusing her of cheating, you should look into these other possibilities.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Dieting screws up your entire life including your sex drive. Encourage her to get off of her strict diet and eat healthy and exercise instead. Her sex drive will, in all likely hood return when she is done starving herself and no longer preoccupied with food.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Sounds like she has some depression going on. Or she could be on medication that you are not aware of, that would decrees sex drive. I would talk to her about this and tell her your concern. Problems in the relationship usually manifest themselves sexually before becoming obvious conflicts.
- 1 decade ago
No, I haven't gone through this but my suggestion would be to romance her make her want to have sex spend the day with her not just to get "some" but because she's your girlfriend and you want to be with her show her you care by taking her to do something she likes and spend the day talking. I know men don't like to do any of that but trust me it'll work.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
She has had a sudden urge to remake herself, with the diet and exercise. I would bet she has ideas about some other changes in her life, and I have a feeling they don't include you.
- JSLv 71 decade ago
I have gotten that way when hubby and I hit a dry spell. It is like I have to have sex to start wanting it more. Kind of like kick start the libido. The more you have it the more you crave it . If that makes any sense.
- complicatedLv 51 decade ago
sorry to say it but she could be tired of having sex with you. or maybe she's just caught up in her own life right now and just isn't thinking about sex.