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I've tried to help others; now can someone please help me?
okay here's the deal; My man tried the other day to reach me and couldn't; he texted me;went on line;and I wasn't there; then he phoned me; I answered; he asked me what I was doing and I said watching a movie; he mistook that for going to the movies ; I went on line and he had left me some off line messages that really did hurt my feelings about him not being able to find me;I tried to let him know that I was tired and he didn't want to hear it; one thing lead to another and we got into a fight which he said we wasn't fighting; So I said that I didn't want to argue anymore;which he said we wasn't arguing;so then we said goodnight to each other;Now today the same thing all over about him not findiing me the other day;he said that he still had issues over it;once again we got into it;now I am at a stand still; why is he so insecured?I've asked him and he denies it;wha am I too do? he says that it's all part of caring for me;Is it? or is it being too overly protected?please help me decide
6 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
He has a control issue.
He wants you where he can control you and your thinking at all times.
He has no control if he can't reach you.
You will not prosper in this relationship.
(Most people will see his actions as not only insecure and controlling but ridiculous)
Ask around and listen closely to the answers.
- RenesmeLv 51 decade ago
The problem is NOT you. It is solely him and his insecurity and paranoia. You arre not a pet that has to 'clock in' with him at all times, you are a human- your OWN self, he doesn't own you. How dare he treat you like that. Do NOT let him guilt you, you need to stand strong and tell him this, and also tell him this sort of behaviour is very unnatractive in a man.
- ALv 41 decade ago
He sounds really insecure. Can you talk to him and ask him to share why he gets so controlling?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
he's called too hard work, being together shouldnt be hard work.
Dont feed him, he just wants to play with your mind, as someone else sed hes a control freak. . .move on, find someone who trusts and respects you.
Good luck
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- 1 decade ago
I've been in relationships like this. It has been "MY" experience that it ended up turning out the guy was cheating on me!
- 1 decade ago
just talk to him and explain to him everything, dont stop texting or calling him until he will decide to talk to you and listen your explaination. my relationship is sounds like you, but i never stop him until he will listen and talk to me
