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My bf and I broke up in Nov due to distance. Now I'm dating someone else and he just found out?
My bf and I broke up because the distance with him going to college was just too much for us to handle. I had told ex bf that I wanted to date him again over the summer, but he said that he didn't want to sacrifice happiness with someone else now for something that may or may not happen between us later. In other words, he had started seeing someone new.
So when he texted me today saying "I miss your random texts" I said "I'm sorry but I guess you said you've moved on and so should I" and he asked if I have a bf, which I technically don't, but I'm dating someone and so I told him that I was dating someone. And then he goes and gets all wounded and is like "I'm sorry, I'll leave you alone" and I told him that I still want to be friends. And then he said "When you said you wanted to see me again over the summer, i took that seriously. But I guess not. I'll leave you alone. ttyl"
should I even say anything to him?
The breakup was mutual. At the time of our breakup, I told him that I wanted to date him over the summer because things weren't working out at that time. I did not tease him or lead him on. He was the one who told me that he wasn't willing to risk his happiness for me when we weren't even dating yet.
(Thank god my new guy isn't like this)
Btw, I'm in high school, and I have unlimited texting, and wonderful grades, thank you very much.
12 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
he was obviously just trying to be all coy and blokey, thinking that he wud get another girl, obviously his plans have failed where as u have found someone new, its hard to tell, ive been in this situation because its then a case of, well does he actually wanna be with me over summer or is he just jealous because u have some one new or is he not actually wanting a relationship with u but he doesnt want anyone else to have u too :S thats a lil tough there hun, im sure it will all come up clean soon enough, he shud have told u he was being serious about the summer tho. which kinda makes me go for the second :S
- Anonymous5 years ago
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
No. Leave it alone, he's an immature little baby. If he really wanted you, he wouldn't let some other guy win that easily. He would fight for you. He's shown how he really feels about you, so go and find somebody great. (Plus we all know the only reason he's texting you is because it didn't work out with the other chick.)
- 1 decade ago
He has no right to get all mopey about this. When he told you to move on because he was seeing somebody you totally got the point and left him alone. He told you to back off so why would he have taken your idea of dating again seriously? He just can't make up his mind so tell him to get lost and find yourself someone better.
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- 1 decade ago
Hes not over you obviously and the thought of you with someone else is hurting him a bit. There isnt much you can do, just let him know that you will continue to be his friend. Hopefully he'll find someone new and move on as well.
- javyLv 51 decade ago
The primary concern of both of you is schooling, specially if your parents are the ones spending. Having a boyfriend, then breaking up, then dating another, and considering the time wasted on texting, i can imagine, is already wasting your time, confusing your life and affecting your studies.
- 1 decade ago
Get of your high horse, perhaps you shouldn't be messing him about...you broke with him and now your phoning him to hang out in the summer as "friends" what are you, an idiot? Stop messing him about, you horrible tease!
- 1 decade ago
Y'all broke up. You owe him no explanation whatsover. It will take much longer to get past all this if you keep communicating like that.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Yes, I think that you should.
Maybe see how he really feels about the whole thing, and go from there.
He was obviously thinking about you, so maybe he still has feelings?
- care-ree =)Lv 51 decade ago
yes, you should talk it out with him and see how you two really feel and if things doesn't work out, then you two should at least try to still be friends.
