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The Diary of an unlucky girl...?
i have been through a point in my life where i stopped complaining and lived to the fullest,but recently with men i am most unlucky,i am not perfect but im easy on the eye,brains,outfit and focused.determined and a perfectionist that applies to all departments.men run away from me especially those i really like.its not like i am extra confident or really desperate,everyone who knows me thinks im very fine.I don't know what to do all guys don't take me seriously,but im not a slapper.they just dont consider me for more than a one night stand,which im not prepared to entertain.some of them just want me as friends.whats wrong with me.iv been single for 3 years now.
4 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Nothing wrong with you of course, unless 99% of the single population is wrong :) It sounds like you are looking for a long term relationship with a good guy, and not having much luck. My suggestion would be to lower your expectations of the relationship you hope to cultivate and just have some fun.
Try to remember the dating rule, never talk about or plan for anything longer than you have dated. For example, if you have dated for a week, dont plan a trip next month. If you have been out on one date, dont think about anything beyond the next day.
Also make sure you go out with your friends on the normal "date nights". Besides the chances of meeting a nice guy, you are living life to the fullest and having fun with nice people. Being happy is an instant turnon to all guys, trust me.
- curiouscanadianLv 61 decade ago
I remember reading that 'Cher' has the same problem - no one wants to go out with her as they are very treatened by her. Maybe you need to drop being the perfectionist (in all departments!) and let the real you shine through. Nothing wrong with starting off as friends though and if you muster up the courage maybe you could ask these friends what it is that turns man off. Good luck!
- ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼Lv 41 decade ago
from your description of yourself you sound preety confident. Loosen up a little and get out there, meet some new people and stop worrying about relationships. make a lot of friends and maybe one of them will be the right one
