Boyfriend talking to his ex?Advice.?

Since it is your boyfriend, I believe you should have some say so in the situtation. Tell him it's a problem, and ask him like this "would you want me talking to a guy that I used to sleep with?"...i mean thats basically the best way to say it. cuz he shouldnt be doing it in the first place. When you break up, you break up for good, or there will still be feelings left with conversation and seeing one another.

Did he come from a large family? Did he spend some time in a day-care? People with situations like that in their backgrounds have often formed the habit of speaking loudly, because it was the only way they could get any attention. Don't get verbal about the problem yourself. Instead, put your hands over your ears, wince as if you've heard a sudden loud noise, or if all else fails, walk farther away. It's his problem to solve, and it will only be solved after he sees that getting louder and louder no longer helps. A strong, carrying voice is a real asset in some situations. Coaches for sports teams need that -- so do supervisors in noisy environments. It even helps when speaking with elderly persons who are hard of hearing. So long as he doesn't use his voice to interrupt or intimidate other people, it's not the worst thing in the world. Does he have the kind of job where such a voice is a positive thing?

He is going to do what he is going to do. You can't control him by telling him not to talk to her. If he loves you and you trust him then stand down. Don't show your jealousy or insecurities. I understand your fears and worries. I don't understand why he is even talking to her though so perhaps you could just ask him if you need to be concern about this.

Just because they were together before doesn't mean they will be again, I still talk to my ex and I wouldn't go back with him even if he wanted to even though I love him

If you trust him you've got nothing to worry about, calm down :)

i have felt wierd when my bf does that too.... the best thing is to leave him be, and he will fix it, or u just DO NOT wanna do that (no girl does) then get somone close to him to tell him that its not cool for him to talk to his ex when he has a new gf! hope i helped

tell him how you feel. he really should have no reason to be talking to her. ask him why he does and trust your gut about what he says. if you don't like his answer, or don't trust him just move on

yer screwed

he has a long history with her

she will always win out