Boyfriend Problems.?

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Here's the dilemma:
My boyfriend and I have been together for quite awhile, and have even talked of marriage.
He's 11 years older than me. (I'm 20) When we first got together that was a big problem for him, slowly, though, he got past that and we've been going strong since.
He's in the military, and gets together with other members of his squadron at least once or twice a month. 
And he NEVER invites me to any of these get togethers/events.
Yes, I'm often working while he goes to them, but the last two times I have been available, and just end up waiting, alone, for him to get home. 
Am I being unreasonable when thinking that I should rethink this relationship, because it's starting to seem that he's just ashamed of being with someone over a decade younger.
What do ya'll think?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

He is probably embarrassed that his friends will make fun of him (guys do that **** all the time.)  My boyfriend is 6 years younger then me and I was nervous about telling people about our age difference. Then I realized that there are plenty of other people in similar situations.  
I think you need to tell him how you feel.  He should be introducing you to his friends by now.  If he still wants to keep you locked away from his friends after you talk  then you should rethink your situation.

mel4o · Answer

He is a really big jerk and has too much ego. If he can't get over the fact that you're younger he doesn't deserve you anyways. Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. If he doesn't change don't let him treat you like that.

Renee · Answer

hes probs embarrassed bout the age difference..... these too much of a gape between u guys

mattprescott79 · Answer

re-think  & move on

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