Please help; I need everyone's advise (rather good or bad)?

You are not wrong!! Trust your instincts!! Do not go against your nature and do not let him make you feel like you have to call him and apologize all the time!! It sounds like he is playing you somewhat and yes using tactics to try to control you to get you to do what he wants!! It is a boost to his ego everytime you call to apologize and console him!! Does he ever apologize to you or does he always make it seem like it is your fault??? This does not sound like a healthy friendly relationship let alone a boyfriend that is supposed to care about your feelings! Try not calling him at all for a while and see if he calls you!! If he does then talk with him hionestly about how his actions are making you feel - see if the two of you can come up with a plan to change the way you are relating to each other!! If he is not willing to do this then he does not really love you, but may just love the way you make him feel!! For a relationship to work you both need mutual love and RESPECT for each other! If you cannot work this out then move on - somewhere out there you will find a man that will love and respect you and yor feelings - not just his own!! Good Luck!!!

If he really love you he would not be doing these crazy things or putting you through these crazy things. If you really want someone to love you try Jesus first because he give his life for you. So fall in love with Jesus then and only then you can tell what a real love is. Not someone taking you from one high to the next and now you are feed up with this mess but you still want to hold on to it. You need a man of God who would love for who you are so take sometime for yourself right now and get your mind right and clear it from all you went through. God bless you. Let God order your steps and not man, and this is coming from a man of God.

You need communication, love, and trust... for the foundation of any successful relationship.

You need counselling if you believe he loves you putting you through all these drastic weekly changes and treating you the way he does.

Wake up and smell the coffee!

You two fight and then he won't answer his phone or acknowledge you? And you still love him? What for?

Are you yet another one who won't listen to reason and your own gut instinct. Are you just yet another one who will have to learn the hard way?

No wonder the divorce rates are so high!

stalk him, it sounds like he has an ego problem and he's very immature. You may need to evaluate your needs and take a good look at what he is able to give you in a relationship. If he is real with you and himself maybe he will admit to his feellings if not that is a sure sign for you.

The first thing i'm sensing wrong with this game he is sucking you into playing is that he needs a stalker it needs to be a Psychiatrist. I'm a woman of God and the Bible says that "He that findith a wife, findith a good thing". The first problem is if God does not rule and reign in his life or yours this relationship will never amount to happiness, maybe moments of fun. Life is too short for you to be focused on man and not God first. If you develop a sincere, committed relationship with God & share with him the desires of your heart regarding the type of man you'd like in your life he will place that man there. I will pray for your salvation first and that God puts the man HE desires for you next.

Your not even in the same state and your fighting all the time? Could you imagine having to do that day in and day out? Sometimes, love isn't enough. You need friendship, first and foremost, honesty, trust, and commitment.

You should move on. Cuz it is never going to work.

I think based on what you have written here that you need to get away from him.

lol why would he want you to stalk him.. thats so lame.. weird.. leave him!