if I send group/category/list email I get this "missing malformed reicpient" why?

Don't know for sure. Sounds like your list has at least one contact that has an email address that is not correctly formated. Check it out and make sure they are all OK.

OK, Since I know the severity what he did prior to the email all I have to say about that one is he knew he screwed up but he is only apologizing in that chicken **** manner because what he doesn't want you to know is there is something he still wants from you. I haven't the foggiest what it is buit he is trying to smooth things over with because there is only a physical reason he still needs to be in contact with you, nothing emotional. If you do respond to him say only "It's good to know you are concerned for my welfare AFTER the fact you dumped me on the street." He prolly overheard you were in a safe place and figure he could then talk to you and smooth things out while he plays around doing what ever since your not there. Any "BOY" that just dumps a woman on the street with nothing and no reason then sez he misses you because he found a pic is seriously disturbed.