who has ever been cheated on abd found out? How did you deal with it? was it over or was it fixed?

I have been cheated on before and it upset me badly. For me once I found out there was no fixing it. I do not have the capacity to trust once it has been broken.

I have a few times,but i didnt find out until the guy came and broke up with me. its pretty obvious when your partner is cheating,though some know how to hide it pretty well. The only way to do deal with it like a mature adult is to walk away,never speak to that person again and know that theres someone out there who is better for you and who wont treat you that way. another thing,it takes time just like the pain of a reltionship. on the over and fixed part it all depends on the situation!

ive been cheated on a long ago..i was 21..

how did i deal with it ? i ate myself fat and alienated myself from alot of friends and family. i was devestated and had o clue he was cheating..when i found out i felt like a rug had been pulled from underneath me and i had fallen backwards, hit my head and had a concussion and couldnt get up.

it was over as soon as i found out i was cheated on, i found out through telephoning my ex..at the time..SHE PICKED UP and thats how the whole thing blew open.

I was cheated on and I felt soo bad. It was really hard for me to move on because everytime I was with another dude I was still thinking about him.

I have never been cheated on, but I have cheated and my husband has yet to find out.

I have been cheated on twice before and i got back together with one of them! WORD OF ADVICE DONT DO IT!!!! once a cheater always a cheater!!! Just move on!