how to deal with a women that has been married 3 times, and have two kids?

what do you mean, "DEAL"...she is a human being...treat her like one.

You deal by offering her tender loving and caring for her children. If you need to ask before doing this, you are not it. A woman cannot be judged by the number of bad choices she has made nor by the number of children she decided to bring into this world. There are many women that have never being married and her list of lovers can run a mile and many might not have children only because they aborted them. Treat her and get to know her as you would any other woman and then take it from there. Good luck

Personally I would spend many years with her to see if any problems developed before even considering marriage. I would be that way with anyone, but especially her because of the number of times she's been married/divorced.

Well if you love her then deal with it, otherwise move on because something must be wrong if she was married three times. Well talk to her and tell her your issues and then go from there.

I would be cautious of marrying someone that has been married three times! Date for a lllloooooonnnnggggg time before marrying her!

befor u marrie this girl u need to have a long talk a bout her kids because in the end it might be to much for you and to stress full i talk zanex when my hubbys kids come on the week end to much for me

What's the question - you need to be more specific on what you are trying to deal with in regards to this woman.

you have your hands full... i dont want to miss judge her and say that she is obviously the problem.. but she sounds a little unstable. its a stereotype i know, cuz she may be a good girl. only way to find out is try.. if u can except everything she comes with and all of her flaws.. Good luck

some one who has been married that long is sure to have baggage

Be very careful.