lETting a guy down nicely?

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Ok so this guy out of the blue adds me on myspace i dont know him but then he tells me he went to middle school with me (i graduated last year) Well im like ok whatever and i ask my friend if she remembered him and she did so yea ok.. Well i stared talking to him and just like being nice but then he started talkin like he liked me and i dont feel the same how do i let him know that i dont feel the same way with out hurting his feelings or making him feel that i lead him on ( which i dont think i was i didnt nor did i ever have any feeling for him infact i have tried in settle ways (or so i thought) To send him signs that it wasnt going to happen) What should i do PLZ HELP!!!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yo. Have you ever hung out with him?

This little myspace crush **** seems creepy as ****. 

I think that you should just tell him straight up. If he's madly in love with you, thats unhealthy and you need to tell him ASAP.

I think that would be the best thing, and if he takes it hard, the sooner he finds someone else the better.

Kay · Answer

Girls always say they never want to hurt a guy but in the end, it's inevitable. They will have to hurt them some way or another or be hurt themseves. Just be polite about it and tell him that he never knew you enough and it's too late for something to happen. But it's ok to stay friends. You need to clearly convey this to him and let him know for sure. You can't just lightly throw it at him because he's going to keep on dodging it. Sometime or another, you're going to have to accept the fact that you're going to hurt him but think of it as a good thing. He'll learn something from his mistake and that it was thanks to you that he did. Don't feel bad about it and just do it. Later on, he'll thank you for it.

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