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Okay picture this: my ex and I broke up; he's told me that we could only be friends; I accepted that; Today I went on a road trip;by my self,My ex heard about it and got mad cause I didn't infrom him of my road trip; Does that make any sense to you?

He even went so far as to ask me why didn't I inform him and when I told him that I didn't think that he wanted to be bothered he got even madder and said some more digraceful things; what do you make of that?

Update:

I travel on road trips by myself all the time;

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I'm guessing he broke up with you. Basically he has no right to get mad. But old habits die hard. It will take some time if you really think that you will be friends. The reality of it is that you shouldn't try to be friends after a break up. You should just go on with your life. If you want to know why you shouldn't try to be friends, read your question again.

  • 1 decade ago

    When seeking wise consul about matters of the heart, be sure to include all necessary details. Isolated incidents of misunderstanding are not the same as blatant disrespects. Your freedom to travel is your right. If you travel to the city he lives in, and don't tell him, then you have disrespected him. If he wanted to meet you and talk with you face to face, and you failed to even offer him this opportunity. You have set the stage for disruption. Some things are more important than you can know. If you assume that you are bothering him without any evidence of this fact, then you have decided this on your own. He may have been waiting for an occasion like this to clear the air between the two of you. But now you have chosen to speak to others about the result of your actions. Putting yourself forward as an Innocent victim. If your could have talked to him like you are speaking here, he probably wouldn't be your ex.

  • 1 decade ago

    he sounds very clingy, and frankly, im kinda scared for you

    i know this sounds completly gay, but this is just like about a million of the maury episodes where the boy is overcontrolling and beats the female...my advice...drop the guy and lose contact

  • 1 decade ago

    Back in the days when I was a playa', I told alot of my x's things that made them still feel important in my life too.... They loved it. women can be so simple sometime.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. Kick him to the curb.

  • 1 decade ago

    wow ur ex is a jerk ask him y he cares what you do? maybe hes ur friend and you should of told em

  • to me it looks like he is just playing with you and loves you a lot. tell him to wake up and be a man

  • 1 decade ago

    maybe he is upset that you didn't tell him that you need some time alone.

    Or maybe he was worried about you and got very upset that you left for some time.

  • 1 decade ago

    He has issues. You know, if your just friends then why should he care?

  • 1 decade ago

    I think , he still love u.....but he cant able to express to u again...he s caring u more....

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