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Ladies Ladies Ladies?

I have a question for all you beautiful ladies out there.

Now lets say your my GF and we've been together for a while and we make plans to do something one night.....and being the idiot I am, I forgot that I had already made plans with the guys before you and I did, so I cancel on you.......are you gonna be super mad or are you going to be understanding and let it go

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  • Cath
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    i don't want to sound like a hypocrite by saying this,

    but as your* girlfriend, i will understand (or at least show you).

    i don't want you to feel bad because you turned me down.

    because you're gonna think about it over and over,

    and might even result to a conflict afterwards.

    but still, as a girl who looked forward to something..

    i would feel a bit bad and frustrated inside. something like,

    "you shouldn't have made me wait for nothing"

    my advise : i know you're planning to make it up to her.

    BUT please don't ask her out again too soon. why?

    because she'll think that it may not be continued again.

    just give her something like flowers and stuff, or a surprise dinner where the both of you can go out (make sure she's free by that time)

    good luck! ^_^

  • 1 decade ago

    My boyfriend does that sometimes. I don't worry about it because I understand that he needs time with his guys. We can't hang out all the time! I would definitely be understanding and let it go. As long as it's not an everyday occurence I think it's healthy to spend time apart.

  • 1 decade ago

    Every girl is different... because I know that you need your night with the guys so I would be cool and I would just plan to go out with my girls. Just tell her, and if she doesn't understand then just explain to her.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'd be dissapointed, but if you had made plans with your friends before me, then i wouldn't be mad, just like upset. But don't forget to reschedule the date!

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  • 1 decade ago

    well, it depends how long we've been dating. if it was our first date, yeah i'd be pretty mad. but if it was like our 20th or something, i'd be more understanding. and it also depends on how long you made the plans before.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would be a little mad, knowing you chose you guy friends over you gf

  • 1 decade ago

    i would be understanding, as long as you explained and made plans with me as soon as you could...

    the girl should always respect the guys life too.

  • 1 decade ago

    wel i wud be a lil upset but probably wudnt tell u lol if u alreafdy made ploan with yer budds i wud undersatnd cuz i mean, i want 2 be part of yer lyfe, not all if it

  • 1 decade ago

    id be a little mad maybe make you feel a little bad but i wouldnt flip off the handle

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would be pretty pissed off that you forgot about it. But guys need their guy time. It would also depend if you have done it before.

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