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Open Question.. Women and men plz sex?
SexSEXsex...... what is the best you have every had..... was it remarkable..... i keep reliving the thoughs of my ex and the way we had passionate, crazy, sensual, mind blowing sex.. that was 4years ago. our relationship ended badly. i have been with my now bf for 3years... and the sex well um.... isnt what it was with me ex. not saying my ex WAS a god in bed. but the way we conected while having sex. I have tried everything with my current bf to SPICE things up.. but its not there. I love him.. but miss really good sex..... yes yes i know a relationship isnt just based on sex..... but i belive it is a healthy part of a relationship.... what was your best. and what made it the best for you???!!! longest answer will get best answer be informational plz... thx denise
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I can honestly say that the best sex was when I was in love with the person that I was having sex with. The emotional connection seems to make all the difference. If you and your lover are having problems, spice it up with toys, imagination, but mostly communication. If you don't tell your lover what you want, he will never know. For your sake as well as his, let him know what you want and how you want to do it. Good luck to you!
- bechardLv 45 years ago
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- 1 decade ago
The best sex i've had would have to be with my current boyfriend ... which is weird for me because the guy i was with before for 2 years ,i loved and we did new things all the time, role playing, weird positions and he was really large.
where as my current boyfriend and i have only been together for about 3 months and he's not really big nor is he small but i think it's the passion he puts into it or it could be that he just knows how to use what he has!
- 1 decade ago
ok hunny, lol, im sorry i just have to laugh a little, i know exactly what ur going through, ok, heres what u do ok? i believe very strongly that openness and honesty are the best policies in any relationship, what u need to do is have a sit down with him, and talk to him openly about how u want to work on making sex better in ur relationship, i know it might be an uncomfortable topic but it works, just take some time to think about all ur fantasies and ur likes and dislikes and if u want to make a list of them so u dont forget or leave anything out, tell him EVERYTHING u like and dislike, tell him u love him so much, but u want to help him be a better sexual partner, and admit that u want to get better for him as well, that will really make him feel like ur not trying to tell him hes bad in bed... men are conscious about that... i am sure he will be open to it and will want to try new things, hell, me and my bf do this all the time, and weve only been together for little over a yr, and he has more than et me halfway on it, i hope this isnt too open... but he even started to gently choke me during sex because i was always into that sort of thing, if he really loves u he will try his best to meet u halfway and maybe even surprise u, just be open with him about how he could make it better for u, and ask him what u can do to make it better for him as well, believe me it really helps a relationship along the way to be open sexually with each other, and u both have to be willing to try to get better for each other, if u need extra tips or anything like that feel free to email me or instant message me or anything like that, if u have questions about some of the things u could try or anything let me know im here and willing to help u along the way, i am very experienced sexually romantically and relationship wise as well, dispite my age, iv ebeen around the block a few times lol, id really love to help u out! if u need anything dont be shy just let me know and ill give u all the advice u need!!!
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- 1 decade ago
gurl let me tell you the best sex I've had was and is with my hubby....i had sex with others before him, but it was not good at all.... while we were in action all I thought was ...are you done yet??? I hated sex till I met my hubby, I even think I was still a virgin before I met him.... lol
man... he even got me to want to have his kids.....
we've been married for a year now and we have a month old boy... in bed he makes me feel like no one ever have!!! I am so in love.. I do believe that love plays a big role in everything... your sex life becomes way better is your in love with a person!! maybe you're in love with the other but not with this one.... there's a big difference between loving and being in love with someone!!!!
- Betsy BoopLv 41 decade ago
Best was my ex. Completely in love with him. Everything he did was more than fun and pleasurable. It was passionate. I felt my heart open to him, vulnerable, a loss of self control. Every touch, kiss...anything was amazing.
I haven't felt that way with anyone else. even making out ...turns out to be fun but not so meaningful. I don't feel as open. It doesn't affect me mentally as much.
Source(s): wish i could feel that way again. - 1 decade ago
this may not be the longest answer but i think it might help you, if you and your presant BF are pretty open with each other, then the thing for you to do is talk about sex with him,get him talking about straight up getting off, sry if that sounds dirty to you but thats exactly what you are looking for , you want to get off and good,sex is all about gettin off on each other if you talk about it openly with him, tell him straight out what gets you hot and if he can manage to do the same, you might get somewhere with him ive been with a couple girls that just didnt fit at first, but talking about what works for you can be very helpfull,unless one or both of you doesnt like talking about that sort of thing.But if the both of you can openly discuss this matter and kinda coach each other it can be just that simple , some comunication can be very helpfull.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
i cant type at all so longest answer is out ..but i know sex is in the mind and willingness to let one self go and be open to new things.... best always
- Anonymous1 decade ago
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