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Am I being played?
So here it is. I'm pretty sure I know the answer already but I guess maybe my heart needs to hear it from someone else. There's this guy, I'll call him Sam (not his real name). Sam is a divorcee (just over a year ago) and has two children. He also works full time as a contractor for the local power company. He often has to drive an hour or more just to get to his job site. He works long days and is very sleep dependent. He needs his 9 hours or more a night. He has his kids Thursday night until Monday morning. I work Friday at 11 pm until Tuesday at 6 am. I live an hour away.
He has lent me his brand new car because mine is currently not working. He has me drive his kids places, take them to school, etc. He has plenty of family who could help with this. Seeing him is tough. I often cut into his sleep. He almost lost his job this week. He says he has no time for a girlfriend but maybe someday. Do I run away or do I wait it out? I don't want to get played again...
Yes, I do know what getting played means... He still wants me for all the physical niceties of a relationship but won't commit to me saying maybe someday. And he's a great guy (or seems to be) who is funny, charming, really smart, handsome... Never met anyone like him, never felt this way about anyone before- that's why I've been trying to make it work.
11 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Can we say booty-call. You can do better by yourself. Your old enough to know that this friendship with benefits it's working for you, so find a man that will take care of you.
- TabbyLv 61 decade ago
It sounds to me like you might be better off finding someone that is interested in a relationship. If he has no time for a girlfriend why would you want to try?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Seem like you found the right guy who you were looking for but its not the right time for him. he need for sometime to get him self together first before he can get into a relationship with you.
- 1 decade ago
It might be that or it could mean that he wants you to get to know his kids because he likes you but he wouldn't go out with someone unless they liked his kids also.
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- 1 decade ago
When's someday on your calendar?? Its sounding like your alice off the brady bunch
- Anonymous1 decade ago
i think you should just move on. && it may be hard but its better in the longrun. you both dont have time for eachother && when you do its bairly enough. I think its best if you both go your separete ways.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Lmao!! Do you even know what getting played mean?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
being played
