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Can I have some advice on the next step I should take with this girl?
I just interviewed a girl I like for an article in the school paper. It was the first time we ever met in person since I initiated the interview through email. I wouldve asked her out but I figured it would be weird to that after talking just once. What's the next step. She's in my dorm but I rarely see her. Should I email her thanking her for the interview and ask if she wants to hang out again? Should I ask her to dinner? Should I avoid making it sound like a date? Also, I borrowed her pen and forgot to give it back. Is that a good excuse to go to her room to give it back
5 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
u can try to thank her through the email and maybe ask her for a dinner to thank her and see what u can do or try to do after that .....
- 1 decade ago
You need to invite her out to a party you'll be at and have her invite friends. If she's interested, she will come. You need more of an opportunity to chat this girl up because she really doesn't know you and the likelyhood of rejecting a date because of that is high. There's a lot of weird dudes out there, unfortunately, so that's always an obstacle when asking a girl out you don't know.
The pen excuse?? No good. It's a pen. I'm sure she can get one someplace else and has no attachment to it. Please don't go there.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
First of all the pen escuse it good :D
Go to her room. Give her the pen and just have a friendly chat. As her if shes doin anything tonight. If she says no ask her if she would like to go out for a friendly drink or eat or something. If shes busy, ask her if she wants to hang out some time. This avoids the whole "Date" Situation :D
Hope this helps x
- 1 decade ago
i think you should return the pen and just start talking to her and ask if she wants to hang out sometime,
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
im not good with the ladies,
but i happen to be one,
and i for one, hate when guys i dont know ask me out.
try inviting her over to your room for a study group,
[make sure you tell her to bring her friends..
that way shes comfortable]
then just talk,
and if your still interested,
then try asking her out.
:]
hope i helped.