How do you know when a man really loves you?

they show their love differently. My husband shows me by his actions.

Well, starting a marriage doesn't necessarily mean you love someone. You know by how he treats you, but you have to be aware of how you are treating him. If you're treating him crappy, you can't sit and wonder why he treats you crappy and if he loves you. Its give and take, if you're giving, and receiving the same or better, its a good bet that he loves you.

if he says he loves you take his word and trust it! but if you want more than what your getting you should tell him how you feel and tell him you want more than justa hand shake! some men can say it and mean it but not know how to show it! so just talk to him and find out whats going on there! i wish you lots of luck!

you know he loves you when he don't complain and you guys talk out your feelings instead of just actions and actions!!! Commitment is not something thats there...it takes time to develop that trust and faith in each other.

when your heart feels that he really loves.. Love is a feeling and nothing else can make you feel on love.. If you feel he loves you means he loves you. Men in love can do anything that makes you feel good as he lives for your happiness..

If he really loves you then it shows in his actions. The words are just that--words. If there aren't any actions to back them up then believe what you see (or don't see), not what you hear.

moe than a handshake? yikes. you would feel loved and secure by his actions.

if he really loves u he wants to be withyou, married to you.