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I'm not going to be very original about this....there's this guy.....?
And he and I have known eachother for a few years. We go to the same church. At first we didnt know eachother. Then my best friend had a crush on him and he was...well, he was a bit egotistical about it. So she got mad at him and I did too....it was pretty funny. So we all were a little..well, a lot hostile towards eachother for a good while. Then we all got over it. He and my best friend still argued a bit but we became aquaintances in a more friendly term. Then we started texting for some random reason. Then I started having a wee bit of a small....ok, so I liked him. A lot. So I texted him a few times. Then one day I didn't text and he started texting me. Every day. Like clock work. About everything but nothing at the same time. Whenever he saw me at church he didnt say much. Then my friend and I confronted him about it and he was sarcasticly arguing with my friend but nice to me. Then I took his hat and he got upset but he forgave me and now he isn't texting as much. So what's up??
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
it's call the push and pull theory. when you text-ed him, you were pushing. when you stop texting him, you are pulling, so he start to push by texting you. Another way of putting it is like the proverbs of "Follow love and it will flee thee: flee love and it will follow thee" by penguin dictionary of proverbs.
Obviously he likes you, but confronting him with your friend was not a good move. you put him on the spot, he got embarrassed and got defensive. best to ask him out for coffee or movie. Or find out what he is good at (eg. computer, software, his work related, or his area of studies) . ask him to help you with something. Then offer to buy him a drink to thank him. If he say that it's not necessary, jokingly say: "you are right, you should feel privileged to have a chance to fix my...etc... I should not be buying you a drink, in fact you should be the one buying me a drink....ha...ha...ha.." Go with him and have a drink. walk around spent a bit of time to get to know him. tease him a bit, flirt with him a bit. The most important thing is to take action and create opportunities.
good luck
