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advice anybody?
ok this is kind of a long story but i was friends with this lady for 4 years and she left her relationship we decided to start dating. Things went well for a short peroid of time and then she broke up with me because she said she was going back to her ex. then she tells methe nextday she made a mistake and wants to still be with me. then she does the same thing but says oh i made a mistake i want to be with your ( a few hours laterthis time) So i went away to where i wasnt able to have access to a phone and she leaves me all these sweet messages telling me that she loves me and cant wait to see me ect. Well then she broke up with me 4 days after that. this time telling me she needs space to get over her ex and a few other things to workout. so i said ok sure take your time ( what else am i going to say). So she keeps talking to me and allthen a weekafter that she says she wants togo out. I told her i didnt think that was a good idea because she needs her space once she has some time
to work things out sure we will go back out. she originally told me she would need some time and i dont think a week is enough time to work out issues like that. well now she is telling me that she doesnt want to talk to me because she thinks im to good for her and she cant talk becasue she is over on her phone minutes and alot of other things to that effect. i ahve talked with her befor and she says she isnt playing games and she loves me and all this other stuff. She says she a B**** for what shes done to me and i have always her no your not and so forth and so on. well she really pissed me off last night and i called her a female dog and so she went off the handle on me and yeah maybe i deserved it. i ave tried appologizing and she doesnt want to have anything to do with it. But in your guys opinion what do you think is going on. if you need any more details feel free to ask me or email me and i can fill in any blanks. any constructive help is appreciated
4 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Stay away from her. She is just using you. She is a user either way and doesn't care but she is either using you to make him jealous or vice versa (that is less likely). You are only hurting yourself by letting her do this to you. If I were you I would distance myself all together and find someone new to have a relationship with. When you do and she becomes a jealous wreck, tell her it is too late. No one deserves to be treated this way. You are better than this back and forth drama. The sooner you realize its not worth it, you will be much better off.
- 1 decade ago
she does not know what she wants. A break may help her realize more of what is needed in her life. If she breaks up with u again, move on, u can't have her doing this to ur life.
- 1 decade ago
ignore her .. and give ur self some time and space too .. i think she ll prolly go back to her ex .. ( many women do that i myself did) and u ll end up being a good frnd whom she still loves..
good luck.. talk to her after few days and do as ur heart says
- Anonymous1 decade ago
she like crazy and stay away if she calls dont pick if u see her aviod her
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