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stress friends/school?
so i missed 2 weeks of school because of mono.. and i have a lot of make up work, and i have been REALLY stressed about school lately, and my friends have been causing SO much drama and bs in my life lately. i just cant deal with it anymore! and i feel like all they do is stab each other in the back and they are all really conniving (however you spell that??) and they just do things to each other all the time. and im so done with not being able to trust or rely on them. i just really do not know what to do. im on the verge of tears trying to get everything done for school and i am physically/emotionally exhausted from dealing with everyone else's crap!!! and i just dont know what to do!?!?!
9 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Sleep on it and see how you feel.
First of all I would confront your friends and let them know that they are stressing you out and that you would appreciate that they treat each other (including you) nicely. If they don't shape up, maybe it's time to make some new friends. You don;t have to technically drop ur old ones (because i know how hard that is) but maybe make some new ones that you know you can trust so that you have another friend to talk to if the other ones turn bad.
For school, I would suggest you ask your teachers to give you more time and let them know that all this work is REALLY stressing you out. Most teachers will understand and usually do something about it to help you out. If not, try getting as much work done at one time as possible. But not to much because you'll over do it.
I really hope this helps because I have had some similar problems too!
Emmy<33
- 1 decade ago
Take a deep breath. First try to relax and take a bit of time for yourself. Deal with only your school work, and try to take some relaxation time and try to forget your stress. Do something you enjoy.
Get your frustration/emotions/anger out. Write them down. Cry if you need to. Talk to someone you trust.
When you are ready, talk to your friends and let them know that you cannot stand to see them treat each other the way they do. If they try to bring you into the drama, turn a deaf ear to it and say I want nothing to do with it. It might sound mean, but it will help you in the long run. If they still don't get it or don't stop, keep your distance from them. You don't need people like that in your life. Try to meet new people who have similar interests as you and aren't into the drama and gossip, etc. :)
Good luck to you :)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I sudjest (i can't spell either :P) Taking a step back from your social life and focusing on school for a while. It can do wonders for your grades.
When you're finally caught up, or close to it, Think about the big picture of all your friends. If you can figure out the Problem you can solve it with minimum effort. I
f you're the type of person everyone takes their problems too, Just stop playing counceller for a while. Everyone needs a break sometimes right?
I hope I was of Help ^-^
BluJayC
- 1 decade ago
First, take a deep breath and then just take time for yourself. Stop going out with your friends, don't talk on the phone and just "hide" a little until you feel more up to dealing with the problems that your friends seem to bring to your doorstep. Make sure, if your friends start harrassing you that you tell them straight up that you are too busy and need time to yourself. If they are your true friends they will understand. And if that doesn't work for you my mom always told me that I could use her as an excuse, so if all else fails...blame it on your parents!! :-)
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
first of all breathe. relax and find ur center...ok now i will tell u what to do. now i have the problem u have. school is hard enough without drama. i say get away from those friends of urs and get ur school work done and the next time one of those friends of urs comes up to u and tries to gossip or spread rumors simply say "listen i have a lot of work to do can we talk about this later please?" and they'll back off. good luck
- 1 decade ago
give ur self time and think abt good things
let off atleast one day or two with out worrying abt school or friends, that wont hurt, and fidn ur self and give yourself time try to do things that make u feel good, and ill bet you will feel better i be under stress alot latley too and thats what i do and i kinda feel better
- 1 decade ago
you should talk to them and tell them how you feel
and if that doesnt work out just ignore them until they come up and talk to you..who knows maybe they will sense somethings wrong and they will want to work things out...just think of a bright side:)
- dbrh_sotoLv 61 decade ago
Leave all the negative friends alone and just be by yourself until you can over come your problem.
- 1 decade ago
ok don't be so stressed just go to school and just calm down and just stop ur friends' fight and maybe just sit down and talk to them and maybe tht will solve ur problems and if it doesn't just well bi!