My best friends boyfriend?

if she likes him , then breaking up wont seem the right way.

it might make him ACTUALLY cut himself.

Have her help him go see someone about this mental

disorder . If someone cuts themselves or almost does it its a

sign of depression and that can lead to suicide and etc.

so pleasee have him get some help and if she really cared

about him she would help him him, not abandon him

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woah woah woah back up.

think about this clearly for a second. he's cutting himself because there's obviously something that he's upset about. so if your friends breaks up with him, there's a very good chance he's going to seriously hurt himself, possibly kill himself.

i went through this exact situation, except the girl was the cutter, and the boyfriend pretended to cut in order to get him to stop. this is possibly the worst thing that can happen, because it basically validates what the boyfriend is doing. it says to him "well, if she's cutting, then it's okay for me to do it too, because she's someone i care about."

the boyfriend broke up with the girl. the girl ended up slashing up her wrists and almost killed herself. she's now in a special school for suicidal kids. the boyfriend feels horrible, and takes all the blame.

on a lighter note, it's awesome that you friends bf is stopping himself from cutting. it shows a lot of self control, and shows that he can get better again. but whatever your friend does, **do not** have her break up with him. he's already emotionally unstable and this will just make him much much worse. your friend should try to comfort him, and work with him to get him to stop.

I have got a suggestion " Jack and jill went up the hill to fetch a pail of h20 jack's gone psycho hope jill aint gonna gonna come tumblin after" Ask ur friend to take this quote from the castigator. She would do well in life.

He must be perfect for her.

Think about it.

She wasn't cutting before but now she is pretending too, and you're worried that he will start and that then she will start too.

Perfect huh?

Why is she pretending to cut?

If she was with a guy who wasn't cutting, would she pretend to cut? Would she even be thinking about cutting?

Don't sound very healthy to me.

You should give d guy a break maybe he has a lot of things in his life & all this is probably just a test like to see if their love could survive it!

You should tell this jack fellow to think about what he is doing and that he is a total moron. She should def break up with him. Why you she go out with someone who cuts himself? What a moron!!!!!!!!

YES she should break up with him or get help for him and her as well! this is not good and you need to be honest with her