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Whats my problem?

So me and this guy went out for about two years and after awhile we grew apart and was always fighting so we broke up but we are still like best friends i now go out with a amazing guy we have been going out for 4 months and even though i don't want to be with my ex i still love him and everything i just don't want to be with him i love the guy i'm with and want to be with him but yet i get mad and upset anytime i hear my ex talk about another girl or going out with somebody whats my problem? how do i fix it because i know he has to move on and go out with somebody but it just bugs me

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  • 1 decade ago
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    your a female....we hate to see your ex with any other females...

  • 1 decade ago

    Hmm..

    well i think you should go on with the first guy, cos i think you love him the most

    and i feel u are attracted to the second guy..

    so its better if you could talk to ur ex and solve out the problems you both are having.. and can still lead a good life..

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you're just too used to having your ex all to yourself and thus you resent him getting close to other girls. You might want to stop contacting the ex so much. The less you see or hear from him, the faster the feelings will fade. Don't think the new guy would want you to spend so much time with him either, right?

  • 1 decade ago

    You fix this by moving on yourself. Just because you got a new boy friend, that doesn't mean you have moved on emotionally from your ex. You honestly might just want to take a break from your ex until you have gotten over your feelings towards him.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Your problem is that you like him a lot but you had ego problems to accept it when you were with him(EX).On the contrary it looks he has o ego probs like you have to convey what he is in to.And its quite possible he is narrating to you abt other girls to tease you and see how you would react. once decided just be away and fix another guy and this time shed your ego off!!and make your Ex feel the pinch of it.

  • Laredo
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Can you use the correct grammar and punctuation? Your question is just one long ramble with no meaning. You sound as if you're about 14 years old.

  • 1 decade ago

    You should distance yourself (emotionally if not physically) from your ex, otherwise neither of you are going anywhere.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think you love him more then your new boyfriend.

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