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What is going on with him?

Ok, so I probably know, but... My boyfriend of over three years, whom I live with has turned into someone I don't even know. He started working mass overtime, staying out all night with friends and not answering his phone. When I tried to talk to him about it acouple of weeks ago, we got in a fight, and he told me to move out, then said he was moving out, couldn't take it anymore, ect. Fine. I started the moving out process, and he decided that he wanted me back. However, right after promising to try and work things out w/ me, he left again, nowhere to be found. Last week, we talked about our relationship a little, and he admitted he broke some boundaries that we had in place, ones that he wanted. Then yesterday, he told me that he doesn't want a girlfriend, I have to move out. Today when he came here, he got angry because I wouldnt give him a hug/kiss hello, and was bitchy to him. Um, HELLO? What is going on, anyone?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I can't definately say, but it sounds like he has been cheating! Dont put up with it! He can't just pick you up and put you down like a rag doll just because he knows you love him! Completely out of order! I know it's easier said than done, but I would just completely stay away from him. It seems like he still loves you, but is confused as he wants to be single! Still, no excuse! Move on!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just leave and then leave him a note saying (this exactly)

    Dear _________,

    I don't know what's going on with you. You've been mind changing and out too long and I dont understand what's going on with you anymore. I am leaving like you told me too. I really think you need to focus on your NEXT relationship, and know what you say.

    your friend,

    ____________

    Source(s): dont put love put your friend.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    this boy got isssues move out break up with him and lose contact with him he is either cheating or crazy maybe even drunk but like my mother always says a drunk man never tells no lies when you leave he will realize what he had once your gone

  • 1 decade ago

    get out...FAST!

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