The boyfriend vs. the coworker crush?

A crush is a natural thing, and not something you can just toss away, persay. The best way to go at it would to pull him aside and explain that your seeing someone at the moment. But be sure to say you want to remain close friends, a confidant if you wish, that you can talk to about family/school/life.

If he likes you this much Im sure he will be exuberant to be a close friend for now. Who knows, if things dont work out with your current BF, you "crying" on your friends shoulder may fulfill this crush. If you havent already, add him to MSN, get his email, or simply add his number to your phone. If you want to spill your heart out to someone this may be the right person. Im also sure that if he likes you this much, he will not lead you in the wrong direction leading to a split in your current relationship...he would rather you be happy then with him.

I should also mention that flirtatious horseplay/joking between close friends is fine. Dont be afraid to give hugs, meet up for a drink after work, or simply talk. Relationships come and go, but friends are friends forever.

Coworkers - not a good idea love even though you have had been together before i wouldnt risk it. Maybe try and set this guy up with someone so he can give her the attention instead of you as you will be both taken. Do you think it would be a good idea to change jobs or get him too? So you can stop thinking about him. Just remember not to say his name while with other boyfriend done that a few times myself

make a list og positives and negatives about each guy and compare. jsut don't cheat on your boyfriend. maybe you could even talk to him about it and ask to be in an open relationship for a while.

What you now do in your life is your business and not your ex's, he blew it and because of that has no right with you at all, tell him to back off.

polyamory... try it!