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Lizrd asked in HealthWomen's Health · 1 decade ago

ladies? masturbation...?

So I just started masturbating (done it like 4 times) and I've been obsessing about it a lot... it's helped me be more relaxed but what should I do so it doesn't interfere with the rest of my life?

Also I never even feel close to an orgasm, it sucks. I'm too young to get a vibrator and I live at home... any inconspicuous things I could try?

Lastly has anyone had problems with parents finding out? Does it make everything really awkward? I'm pretty open with my parents and I want to talk to someone but I'm not sure how they would react.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    get a shower head for your bathroom, home depot has a good selection starting at $12 if you don't want to spend a lot, and its discrete, if your parents find out I'm sure it'll be awkward but they probably think its better than you having sex.

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm pretty sure that sharing your masturbation habits with your parents is really wierd and disgusting. That is a personal thing. Like you wouldn't want to know about their sex life (or would you?!). I mean if this helps you relax then you should go for it. You could use a back massager, an electric toothbrush, or a shower head to "scratch the itch". I have never had a problem with my parents finding out. Just do it when they are not home, or when you are in the shower...

  • 1 decade ago

    I've heard that electric toothbrushes could work, but may be a little noisy. Back massagers work too but again, can get noisy. Just use them when your parents go to the store or something. Don't worry, orgasm's will come, just keep trying and you'll find what works and what doesn't.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you are not even getting close to an orgasm, you are just doing penetration. You need to use clitoral stimulation. Fingers, or the back side of an electric toothbrush.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yeah i had this same question and i cant reach one either but electric toothbrushes do feel good but also dry humping works good i think. also just have fun

  • 1 decade ago

    i masturbate in the shower most often or when no ones home

    :]

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    u need to find your clitoris and play with it . then you will have orgasm.

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