How can I make my girlfriend happy again?

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I date my girlfriend now for almost 5 years, she goes to college and works a Part-time job. I work full time and trying to go to college. She stresses out about school, her job, and sometimes me. Makes me feel like a burden on her, she says sometimes I cause unnesscessary stress and I do things that stress her out that is not needed. I stop stressing her out, but it still seems I keep doing things wrong, how do i stop this?!

Ashley S · Accepted Answer

We all handle stress in different ways. Is there anything else going on in her life that haven't heard about? 
Have you told her how you're feeling? If not, don't let yourself think that she doesn't need anymore stress on herself right now. The problem is definitely NOT your fault and you are NOT a burden on her. Sometimes we take our stress out on the people we love because we know that they will continue loving us. You could also maybe take up yoga with her or some other stress relieving activity.
whatever you do good luck!
Ashley

Mikey · Answer

first of all take her out into a happy fun place maybe a expensive resturant, etc. it will make her happier and everything will start to come back a normal pace again  with no stress and take her to here faviourite place if you know where it is

Anonymous · Answer

talk to her directly about it, tell her that sometimes she makes you feel like a burden and that all you want is her to be happy and tell her sometimes you just need to be told how to make her happy because at the moment you feel like your doing it all wrong

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe your trying too hard and not giving her any space. I did that before. Drove her away. Spend time apart and have her spend time with friends. Then when you spend time with her do something fun and special on a date.

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