Christian Men........how should you carry on when dating?

Wait a minute you met him yesterday and went with him to see a movie. At his house or the theater? Be careful not everyone that says Lord Lord shall enter into the Kingdom of Heaven. In other words not everyone who says their a Christian is.

If you are going to his house on a first date DON'T. If he is that sexually active don't be alone with him until you are comfortable w/him.

My dear, I understand perfectly what u went through. I've been there tho ofcourse it was a bit different. Do not be deceived. Not all people who call themselves christians are christians. I had a rude awakening recently and my wounds r still fresh.

Just because he says he is a christian does not make him one. He is pretending so that he can get into your pants. Dont spend more time with him alone. Infact de-assiciate yourself from him. He is simply pretending and as soon as he gets into yo pants, he is going to run.

For all we know, he could even have a girlfriend with whom he is abstaining but bse he still wants sex, he looks for it outside. You might be a victim of this game, so my advice to you is that u stop seeing this man.

Finally a true christian man would wait for you to have sex with him in marriage and during this period he would not flirt with other girls. Even if it means that u donot kiss, he would be willing to wait because kissing usually leads you on to other things.

He definitely doesn't act like Christian. I have also dated a Christian man before and his family was very religious. His dad always read the Bible and my ex always claimed different verses that related to our situations and stuff. Well, I did not want to have sex with him till marriage and he did not either at first. Then he couldn't wait and he told me he would break up with me if I didn't have sex with him. We were in long distance. The first time he came to visit me, I didn't want to have sex so he went and grabbed some whore on the street and cheated on me. (That was really unforgivable but I did forgive him cuz I loved him too much). Then the second time he came, he said he would break up with me if I didn't want to have sex with him, so that gave me pressure and so I did it even though I felt uncomfortable. After he went back to his country, he asked me to send video clips and stuff to fulfill his sexual needs and I felt sooooo bad doing that for him because I'm a very shy and decent girl who would never do such things. But because I loved my ex, so I made some special videos for him. It was always bothering me why even though he was Christian, he was so into sex and he would watch porno sometimes. He definitely did not behave like Christian and always showed me how sex was so important to him. Now I'm soooo glad I left him because he was really a loser and I know I deserve better.

So my suggestion for you is to leave him because he is definitely not acting like a Christian and he could use his religion to manipulate you just like what my ex did.

He is a man and you are a woman. The bible tells you that you are allowed to enjoy sex. It's OK. You don't even have to be married. You have to be in love. Married is a legal thing and it's not a religious thing.

If you are attracted to him and he is attracted to you then you go for it. You have been brainwashed for many years and let me tell you God is not going to punish you for falling in love. If it's just lust that's a different situation. You might get a little spank for that.

Well, I think it's really strange and I would have mixed feelings.

REALLY think twice about this guy, because IMHO someone really worthy can wait a little. And he just seems horny.

I am affraid he will want more and more and will become impatient really soon.

You feel uneasy about it now. How about the future?

maybemy answer is not joyful, but at least frank.

Good luck my friend!

Men are men, looks like hes tired of waiting and would cheat on his wife to satisfy his wants.

If he does do it then hes commiting adultry which is a sin.

So... I would run lol

PS...this is coming from a man lol

He was doing all this, even though you two just met YESTERDAY?

If I were you, I'd either set some clear boundaries for this guy, or I would not see him again and find someone else.

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He was not acting in a good Christian manner He was acting in a bad Christian manner.

i think the boy is personally lost. so as a christian woman its up to you to point out that what he does makes you feel uncomfortable and ask if hed like to pray with you to help the situation.

If he wants to wait, just wait then. He will show his love in other ways (other then sex.) but if he cheats on you, kick him in the face....