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Anonymous asked in Education & ReferenceHome Schooling · 1 decade ago

Homeschoolers, is the inability to see this irony a result of public schooling?

…or just a personal short coming?

I notice that the very people, who most rabidly declare that homeschool should not even be a legal option, often claim that homeschoolers are overly controlling and intolerant of the choices of others. Surely I am not the only one who finds this wildly hilarious?

Update:

Mike......I am a liberal. Please, no stereotypes.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Probably both :-)

    I don't think it's any coincidence that once things like Logic were taken out of schools, people started following fallacies like little lemmings - you know, things like "you have to be in a desk, not talking to the other 32 kids in the room for 30+ hours a week in order to be properly socialized" and "only students whose information is strictly controlled by state-set lesson plans are allowed to be called open-minded".

    You're not the only one getting a good giggle this week :-) Lots of pots calling kettles black!

  • 5 years ago

    Smarter? No. Do many children excel beyond the expectations and limitations of public school in a home based educational environment? Yes. There is data that shows homeschoolers tend to score higher, on average, than public schooled students. Notice that anti-homeschoolers will try their very best to explain this away. However, even if they did not score higher on average, I would still homeschool. It is not what is good for the largest number of children that interests me. That is the way public schools are forced to operate. As a parent, I can focus solely on what works best for my child. Therein lays the greatest strength of homeschool.

  • 1 decade ago

    I find it maddening.

    I have recently had issues on another board and been accused of being "insensitive,ill informed and racist" because of something I said. Mind you it was none of those things but rather that I disagreed with the politically correct view on the subject (illegal immigration) and was told I was ill informed about the NEA when I said it was hostile to homeschooling (no it's not the first page people you actually have to READ the resolutions....sigh).... but I digress a bit..... the point as others have stated on here is the ideology that anything goes as long as you agree with me is inherently flawed!

    Very often the people who post on here as anti homeschooling have no clue what they are talking about but prefer to remain ignorant.(trust me it's the same on the military board). Schools today do not teach students to THINK and be able to debate with others calmly and still disagree at the end and then go out for coffee! So yes I think it's both a result of ps and a personal short coming as many of those who post on here are coming from a visceral, gut reaction rather than a logical one.

  • 1 decade ago

    My first thought in all of this would be an attack on the public school system and the college said Judge got his law degree from. I do not think I am the only one who has considered that he had no idea what he was ruling on. Did he research the laws and precedents (or lack thereof ) in this case? Did he not consider what the results would be in making this ruling. They say Judge Ito ruined his career on the OJ Simpson case. I think this Judge needs to call Ito for some advice on what he should do to not be a total mockery.

    I also think that the one thing you NEVER do is attack a mother's rights to protect her child. Too many ticked off homeschooling Moms (and Dads) are going to fight this tooth and nail.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    When I was teaching in the PS system, I had a kid in a morning class that refused to say the Pledge...

    I pulled him aside after class one day and asked: "Do you see the irony in what you are doing?"

    He didn't see the irony.

    I consider myself to have a good sense of humor but I have a hard time finding this wildly hilarious.

    I find it inexplicable.

    The folks who absolutely refuse to see any side of an argument except their own is ... infuriating, disconcerting...

    It leads me to believe that they do not care about the facts and they only care about their own agenda.

    I also find it interesting and telling that many of the regulars here, acknowledge that homeschooling is not the right choice for all.

    So... I do find it "funny" but not in a humorous way.

  • 1 decade ago

    People are prejudice because they don't know anyone that homeschools and therefore think that only crackpots are involved.

    Homeschoolers can adapt better to adult situations and can talk on an adult level at an early age, but they also enjoy traveling which they could never do in a public school mode.

    My husband was against it until he found another homeschooling husband who encouraged him to try it out.

    My kids graduated early my son has Bachelors in Computer Science and his sister takes courses at Cornell.

    Nobody asks you where you got your education once you have some college courses or job experience. It doesn't matter anymore.

  • 1 decade ago

    It is wildly hilarious, but I don't think it is a result of public schooling per se.

    I think that people who are inclined to tell other people what to do, who are overly controlling of others, do have difficulty with subtle forms of humor. Have you ever seen the P&T burning the American flag trick? They point out that the uncertainty inherrent in the trick can only exist in a free society, that in a repressive regime like China, they would have to show every detail...because people who require control require no ambiguity. So, if humor is not spelled out (e.g. "Let me tell you a funny joke..."), they don't get it.

    And I do think that people who believe in that level of control believe in public schooling (and were probably publicly schooled themselves).

    Source(s): Here's the P&T clip: http://youtube.com/watch?v=ETiXXf0ZqRQ
  • What gets me is how agressively some adults will voice their strong opinions against it... talking about how horrible an idea it is and how it needs to be illegal and how horrible parents who homeschool are.

    I sometimes wonder what traumatic event in their childhood brought this one. Maybe it was their childhood dream to win a spelling bee, but lost to a homeschooler on the final word.

    Or maybe they have issues of jealousy because some homeschooling family they know actually enjoys time with their kids and gets to make learning a fun experience for everyone, and not a chore and a bore.

  • 1 decade ago

    Honestly I think it is a result of public schooling. While one is in public school, "fitting in" becomes a very big issue! That is the one major thing that students deal with and I think it runs over into adult hood with some of them, especially the ones that you are referring to. Home schoolers just don't fit in with them because one that is home schooled is considered "different"! Just my opinion.

    I also think that there is some jealousy there too.

    The thing that bothers me the most is that an adult will bash the HS students and yet they really have done NO research to back their claims of poor education or poor socialization due to being Home Schooled. I am home/cover schooling my kids starting the end of this school year, and I have done a lot of research on the actual turn out for HS students and found that the HS students overall are scoring higher on their entrance exams for college compared to public/private schoolers.

    The majority are level headed and have their feet on the ground and their ducks in a row! Compared to the public or private schoolers! This is an option for many types of families and it should be legal. The HS students are tested regularly by the state and that says it all. I just hope that the ones that are so willing to bash home schoolers, will actually "educate" themselves on this issue before they run off at the keyboard and make themselves look uneducated on this subject! Overall, I totally agree with you, good question too!

  • 1 decade ago

    It is wildly hilarious. Since I wanted out of public schools so badly when I was a kid because I developed a seething hatred for others we saw it happening to our children too.

    Since we began home schooling them 3 years ago, our own children are so kind, polite, and caring towards others.

    Plus they learn far more at home than any public school could ever offer.

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