branded, labelled, stigmatised and feel alot of people have negative preconceptions of me- what do i do ?

Seriously dude, you've been asking the same questions for six months, are you really expecting a plethora of new and helpful answers? Grow up and move on.

When someone acts aggressively, people will draw back or meet to exceed the aggressive act. There is ALWAYS a big dog out there more than willing to help you realize you are just a pup.

Sounds like you've have some tough stuff happen but it also sounds like you brought some of it down on yourself.

People do tend to stand back from people that don't act normally. Do you expect people to treat you normally if you have a history of losing it and not being able to control your emotions?

I literally went through a period of YEARS where I slowly regained the trust of others after my nervous breakdown. I had to DAILY go out and do my best to function and slowly people began to realize that I was "normal" again. Yeah, the stigma is alive and well but its up TO YOU to prove the stigma wrong.

Sounds like you've PUSHED others away and then you stand there wailing about how no one wants to hang with you.

Social interaction is a give and take. Just like communication. Try to reach out to others in just casual friendship and see how it progresses.

And group therapy would be a definite plus. A structured program where you could get constructive feedback.

You do not have a slanted view of the situation; you have an absolute upside down view. Stupidity is not something in your build up, because you have mastered the art of using the computer, and searching the internet. The amount of mistakes in your Q., tells me that you lack some knowledge of English grammer; but the lay out of the question is very good therefore there is hope that i might get through to you here. Think hard on this answer;;;;; it is not the world against you my friend: It is in fact you against the others all the time.

Nobody, least of all me, can blame you for feeling like this after you have been through the mill to such an extent. All of us have had some bad happenings in our lives, but yours is much deeper than most. You do not indicate male or female.

I will promise you this: If you wish i will be here for you to exchange messages as often as you wish, and try to pull you round to a more stable way of life. BUT you have to do your part in all this attempted CURE. Good luck FRIEND, you can do if you gather strength.

The first thing you're going to need to do is stop claiming that you're a victim, and stop blaming everyone else for your problems. I do not mean to sound insensitive, but YOU are in control of your life - nobody else is, and it's not anyone else's fault that your life is the way it is. If anyone tells you otherwise, they're lying to you.

If you're going to turn your life around, it's your responsibility to take charge, suck it up, and make those changes. It's your responsibility to get an education, treatment, and a job - even though that can be a difficult thing to accept. If you're 30 years old and you haven't figured this out, I don't think there's much I can say to help you.

I almost didn't answer this question because I had decided I just don't have anything to add. That's what MY illness says to me...it says, who is going to listen to me. This in the mind of someone (me) who has been in therapy for 24 years. Thats called experience, not stigma. Stigma is about 90 percent in your head.

First of all I really do believe committing suicide is the single most selfish act ever imagined, not to mention, a sin against the creative forces of light and dark.

I needed to be taught how to wald down the street with my chin up, go shopping, date, etc. When you are in therapy, you have re-invent yourself, the world and your god. There is no particular reason why things haven't worked out. Still we must try to give up everything in order to get back all the wonderful character you are. You are worth it.

People are not rejecting you.

After someone says the same thing over and over, there is nothing anyone else can say.

You have said the same things many times and we have said the same things just as many times.

Look outside yourself and start caring about others.

Volunteer some place to help you get out of yourself.

The people that you volunteer for will appreciate your service and show you their appreciation. This is one way of getting positive reactions from others. Once again, Good Luck.

i kind of know what you mean.

I suffer from PTSD, i've had a hard life.

But you need to move on and stop lingering on this.

I know it was so hard for you, and it's easier said than done,

but the reason why your so agressive and a bit upset is because your not moving on with your life. It's obvious you think about this a lot, but thinking about this isnt making your life better, its making it worse. Life is so unfair, getting angry isnt the answer at all. I think you need lots and lots of therapy.

Therapy and councelling helped me overcome my PTSD and i had it really bad.

Hope i've helped, and good look in the future,

JessiiLou

xxx

Once you get to the point where you stop caring what others think, that's when you'll start to feel better.