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Legend
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Legend asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 1 decade ago

Is it ever too late to apologize?

Sometimes, I feel like it's best to leave someone alone when they're upset with you and let them 'calm down', but I realize that in most cases, you have to apologize when you feel like you've done something wrong.

Is it ever too late to apologize?

Update:

So.. when is the best time to apologize? If I hurt someone, they might be so blind with anger, that I would leave them alone to calm down. But if I wait too long, I don't think they will take my apology seriously.

Other times, I feel so ashamed of myself, I can't even look at the person I want to apologize to, so I wait it out even more...

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I honestly think an apology is always welcomed. It may make a person angry for a bit as they remember/realize something they did to you but I also believe it shows great remorse apologizing late. It seems more authentic as a person has been dwelling on the subject for sometime and would sincerely mean it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sometimes the damage is so great that the person may not want an apologize but for that person who hurt them to just go away forever. Or there are the people who hold hate for someone for a long time and they get an apology and can finally let go.

  • 1 decade ago

    My guilt about a relationship I messed up haunted me for 3 years straight. I finally apologized 3 effing years after my mistake occured, and I hadn't ever even seen or spoken to that person since it did.

    But it worked. He forgave me.

    Time heals wounds.

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    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    It is never too late to apologize, but you have to realize that saying you are sorry is no guarantee that they will either accept your apology much less re-establish your former relationship.

    On the other hand, what do you have to lose by trying ?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i say if it is to the point to where that person has to calm down first then let them calm down and then have a really good apology for them.

    Source(s): good luck
  • 1 decade ago

    Y'know, even if you have both "moved on" then you still might want to acknowldege that you were a jerk/thoughtless/insensitive, etc.....it lets the other person know that you value them - and thats always a nice thing for someone else to feel.

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think it is every too late to apologize as long as the apology is sincere.

  • 1 decade ago

    IT CAN BE, IN SOME CASES...DEPENDS ON THE PERSON THEY MIGHT NEVER CALM DOWN..AND REALLY, SOME PEOPLE WILL NEVER FORGIVE OR FORGET...BUT TO CLEAR YOUR HEAD, WHEN YOU DO SOMETHING, ALWAYS APOLOGIZE RIGHT AWAY...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Is it ever too late to apologize?

    Yes, if the person you owe the apolgy to, is dead.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes, when you are standing over their bodies and your gun's been fired. That's a bit late.

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