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I'm having a somewhat small church wedding. Of course my family is coming, but should i invite my church family. I have been going to this church since i was 2 yeards old. What do you think?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You invite who you want to invite. stay sweet and safe.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yeah it's a hard choice because you don't want to disappoint those who are not invited. What I'm doing is sending an invitation to church family to attend the ceremony but I'm not inviting them to the reception. Make your wedding invitation inviting people to the ceremony (maybe with a standing reception afterwards) and those who are invited to the sit down dinner slip a second invite in the invitation.

  • If you're having a small wedding I would suggest only inviting those that are closest to you.

    If it's somewhat bigger and you have room for extra people then you can invite whomever you choose.

  • 1 decade ago

    Do you mean the entire congregation? If you do decide to invite them, be aware that you would need to feed them at the reception as well, not just invite them to the ceremony. They'd all need their own invitations, as well. If you're up to the task - and the expense - go for it. But you have no obligation to do so.

    Source(s): Miss Manners' Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behavior
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  • 1 decade ago

    i think it depends on wether or no tu can afford it. You may have to feed them as well. Plus if you want ot keep it small you may want to skip asking them. How big is the church congerg.? You eventually need to put your foot done and say enough is enough, it could get out of hand. What if you invite them and they each want ot brign someone?? It is possible. I wouldn't if I were you.

  • 1 decade ago

    YOU SAID IT ALL YOURSELF....YOUR FAMILY WILL BE THERE AND YOUR CHURCH FAMILY SOMETIMES IS "THERE" FOR YOU WHEN OTHERS CAN'T BE.....SO I BELIEVE IT WOULD BE AN AWESOME GESTURE ON YOUR PART TO INVITE YOUR CHURCH FAMILY AND I BELIEVE THEY WOULD BE HONORED......AFTER ALL, THEY HAVE BEEN THERE AND WATCHED YOU GROW FROM A 2 YEAR OLD LITTLE GIRL INTO A MATURE AND AWESOME YOUNG WOMAN....INCLUDE THEM.....AT LEAST LET IT BE KNOWN AND LET THEM DECIDE FOR THEMSELVES. I BELIEVE YOU ARE AN AWESOME YOUNG WOMAN TO HAVE EVEN THOUGHT OF THAT.....GOOD FOR YOU....MAY GOD BLESS YOUR DAY AND THE NEW LIFE YOU WILL BE STARTING.

  • 1 decade ago

    If they are somewhat like our family I would...Atleast the closest ones.

  • 1 decade ago

    i would invite the people that are really close to me.

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