why is my friend like this?

Because she is treating you as a backup. When she needs someone, you are always available to her. If she has better choices, she would not choose you. I have a feeling that talking to her won't change anything.

Instead, maybe you should give her a taste of what it's like to be treated like a backup. Ignore her when she needs you. Find something else to focus on. Do that for a little while and if she cares about you, she would initiate to talk about it with you. If she's fine with it, then she does not need your friendship, and you most definitely do not need hers.

Seriously she doesnt seem like much of a friend ask her but if she doesnt talk to you just dont worry and find someone else to hang out with the onkly reason she acts close to you at her house is because no one else is their to talk to

friends dont do that

trust me i have been i the same situation

its not nice

I had the same type of friend and he turned out to be an absolute asshole. its really up to you but i would confront her about it and ask her why she is doing it. Or if your the type to get revenge hang out with someone else and see if she gets jealouse of you ignoring her. But also take into mind that her other friends may not like you.

your friend have time with you after school, so he or she need times with other friend, but if he or she being rude to you just speak up and say why you're like this (maybe invited the other friend along or try to stay in their group, if doesn't work either you are different or maybe they are

you'd best realize that this chick is no friend of yours. from past experience i'd have to say that these other girls have spoken badly of you in some way, and her desire to be with them over rides any level of friendship that you two have ever had.or at least something to that extent.

Talk to her about it. Maybe she spends so much time with you outside of school that she wants to spend her at school time with other friends.

don't know.

She probably hates clingy people. Ignore her and associate with other people. if she wants to talk to you, she will

tell her how you feel. if you dont think her explanation is acceptable spit in her face.

beat her up.