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ok.... i am 17 and never.......?

iam 17and have never drink a drip of alchol or never smoked or never tried a singel drug in my life (except the ones doctors percribed for illness)... i am also a virgin and i dont go to the wild partys everyone throws...... due to all that, i am considered a goody-goody girl...... and i hate it!!!! what do you think of the way i am and if you went to my high school would you hang out with me?????

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You just sound to me like a well-balanced person who doesn't feel the need to indulge in crazy things..............don't think you have missed anything because you haven't.........drugs such as alcohol and marijuana are just used to break down your resistance to advances of boys and smoking is unhealthy and stinky..........being a virgin to me means you aren't willing to throw yourself at someone just so you can answer some biological questions that will certainly be answered soon for you, when you meet that boy who at this moment is wondering about you and how you are doing..............it would be a shame to settle for less than him, wouldn't it?

    You sound to me like just the kind of girl I would like to know and enjoy...............keep up the good work.............

  • 1 decade ago

    Playmate...... I think that those who consider you a goody goody two shoes are jealous and wish they had done the same. I to was like you and have never regretted it. All young women and men could benefit from your life style. They would find that there would be less then1 in 4 young ladies with sexually transmitted diseases. I would commend you. God Bless!

  • 1 decade ago

    In my opinion, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being considered a "goodie goodie." I'm 19 and haven't done any of those things, either. I take it as a sign of the content of my character. Embrace who you are, and don't let anyone make you feel bad for not doing those things just because they brand you as a "good girl."

  • 1 decade ago

    You sound very cool...

    Be proud of the lifestyle you are maintaining, it will make you a leader later in your life.

    There is no such thing as goody-goody girl it is only stupid chatter from tramps you go to school with.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well I don't know about the high school you go to, but in mine, if someone does drugs they're considered a pot-head, if they drink they're probably a hick (I'm just sayin'- we have a lot of those in Texas), and if they have sex all the time, they're considered a slut.

    You don't need to change. It's just unfortunate that you go to school with a bunch of morally-lacking kids.

    Source(s): Sophomore
  • 1 decade ago

    doood u'll be glad u DIDNT do all that stuff in a few years...i'm not a virgin, but i waited til i was ready (and 18) and i dont drink, dont smoke, dont do drugs, never touched any of that stuff and i'm glad i haven't and won't...i'm 20 and my peers who HAVE done that stuff are pretty messed up right now, either have kids or screwy lives, seriously, and it makes me grateful every day that i decided not to "go with the crowd" when it comes to all that stuff, so keep it up =) dont ever do somethin cuz the "cool" kids are doin it...it wont look so cool when you're knocked up w/ a deadbeat bf...and yea based on that alone i think u'd be cool (and smart) to hang with =)

  • 1 decade ago

    i would definatly hang out with you, people call me goody good also and i just prefer not to screw up my life with all that crap thank you very much, just keep up with what you want to do and don't give in to anything that they are doing u will be better off in the long run

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that's really mature of you. I hate it when people go all crazy at parties and drink and stuff because its cool. I would probably hang out with you, I don't normally judge people on their social life, more on their personalities.

  • 1 decade ago

    i am the same way, well except i am a guy...i dont drink, smoke, and im a virgin...there r a lot of people like me at my school, and a lot of my friends are actually ppl that drink, i just find other ways to hang out and get alonf with them.

  • 1 decade ago

    well I'll be damned, there are still people like that? I was raised in a church, everyone I grew up with was raised like that, most of us have gotten pretty wild now that we are out of that setting.

    and yes, I would hang out with you, I havent forgotten everything about how I was raised. I can be quite the gentleman whe I need to be

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