HELP Me guys, about a flirting guy,best answer to most helpful?

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okay,I was at a {place} were a cute guy kept looking and talking to me,he touched my hand and came closer to me and huged me,for about all of a minute,he was close enough for me to hear his heart crazily beating, then he asked me if  I had a boyfriend i said no and that my mom would kill him, now I see him every where I go in school but not on purpose, I never say anything and people say he's a major flirt and no one I mean NO ONE flirts with me NOT EVER I'm just now starting to get hit on by ugly old dudes and i cant even geta guy my age what do I do?

Your Uncle Dodge! · Accepted Answer

You don't seem to handle flirting well. You didn't even say if you liked the flirting or not. You were scared of what it leads to.

I am lost somewhere between "I can't get a guy my age" and "no, I don't have a boyfriend, my Mom would kill him." You aren't ready for a boyfriend of substance.

Calling people older than you ugly will usually get you dissed in social circles. My guess is that you already do have a small, comfortable circle of friends. If everyone else thinks you are standoffish (like your entry shows) then that's why you can't get a guy your age.

All I can say is: Grow up so the right guys will notice you instead of the "ugly old dudes".

Anonymous · Answer

don't let the fact that no one flirts with you except for the old ugly ones influence your decision or opinion about this

forget about all of that, as girls who date with low self esteem are rarely happy and end up in situations that aren't the greatest

instead just think about him and you and how you feel about that
do you think he's just a flirt? or do you think he might actually like you?

I think the best thing to do would be to get to know him better
if he seems to be a nice person who is just overly friendly at times, then maybe you should flirt back if you like him
if he comes off as a player, ditch him, at least as a possible date, you can still be friends with him if you like

just remember that just because nobody attractive flirts with you doesn't mean you aren't attractive
and it also means that not all the ugly people who flirt with you are bad people
like they say don't judge a book by its cover

Anonymous · Answer

Well if he seems like a guy that is great and funny then maybe you should give it a try with him for about 2 weeks and see if you like things. When you see things your not comfortable such as he forces you to have sex then just break up with him.

Its always good to try things then judge it by the cover, and so what if people say his a major flirt and you say people don't flirt much with you around your age well this is a perfect opputunity to get in there.

Have a bit of fun.

To me personally this guy sounds like a freak but thats just me cause im a male.

Good Luck and i hope all goes well.

manicscitzo · Answer

Hey, if you aren't getting any better offers.....(if only you had an old men fetish, you'd be fine....)

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