How can I get her to forget my life and get on with her own!?

Ignore her, you can only pitty such a person. But if this gets too annoying, I suggest you not be gentle using your words when talking to her.

There are many good answers here- You must know that this girl hold you in high esteme. Everyone makes mistakes and maybe she needs someone with a good grasp on life to guide her. If you feel comfortable talking to her find out what the problems are and let her know that you are not a game player or back stabber. If this doesnt work, you need to inform your friends that when she asks about you all they are to say is- things are great and how is your life- nothing more if she continues to ask for more they should tell her that she needs to call you personally to find out. If the answers stop she will either move on or hopefully give up. Even when people have bad starts to life, there always hope for a change, if you see it- great. if not just let her know your life is busy and you are moving in other directions. Try not to ever hurt someone with your words, because that only causes you to go backwords and your own personal growth stops

Unfortunately, there are nasty people like that in this world; Do not ever make the mistake of inviting her at your wedding as this will spoil your mood, your time and she might backbite also. Just be cool and do not disclose all your wedding details to any of your friends.

Just be happy and concentrate on your plans...Ignore this kind of person and you will be the happiest person.

Good luck and take care

Sounds like you are doing a great job of staying away from her. Keep it up. Decline the offer to attend the wedding and just ignore her. Apparently your friends aren't helping by telling tales about what she said. She doesn't matter to you so just go on with your life and don't let her worry you.

I think the girl that said to tell your friends u don't want 2 hear anything about her anymore was right on, then u will have peace. Also I would tell my friends if I was them I would tell them to tell that girl the same thing! tthen they'll have peace!

The girl is being spiteful and jealous!

She is so nasty and jealous, just ignor her.

It sound like she wants to copy or better your weding day so why not send out false info !

Just ask her straight what her problem is and tell her to stop harassing you. This is the best thing to say. I don't like you leave me alone

just live your own life and do not bother with her at all no matter what she may say or do. after you are married things will be better. she'll know for sure that she cannot have you back.

She is trying to hijack your life via 'emotional' & 'social' bullying. You need to put physical & social distance between you and this sick person.

Check sources on 'bullying'.

Well if you see how pathetic she is I'm sure your not alone.Be the bigger person let her live threw you and take it a a compliment