After the first date, shoud I call or email?

yep you should call her. Like men like to do the chasing, women like to be chased a little (regardless of the fact that it's 2008). I say call her, rather than E-Mail. Come on!!!Take the risk...it may be worth it! Good luck.

Absolutely, but just one or the other. Maybe a single liner saying something like "I just wanted to let you know I had a really great time last night and that I look forward to seeing you again soon." And just so you know, most females won't go on a date if they aren't at least a little interested in you. So go with it, just don't be "stalker-ish" in how you communicate, and definitely don't make her contact you all the time.

Don't email, that lame and not personal enough. Give her a call two days after the date. Give her a chance to call since she said she would.

Just call her and ask her how is she feeling, how is her day and get 2 know if last night was great. Don't push 2much. Just be polite and smooth and don't rush things until u know 4 sure that she is interested.

WAIT!!! It will show that you repect her and her privecy. If she takes more then a 3 days then you call dont e-mail . Anyways, I think thats its kinda cheap when guys e-mail me to much after a date.

wait 2 days and then call her. Don't e-mail, its a sign of weakness.

she said she will call but if a lot of days pass call her &tell her that you wanted to just check on her.

I would e-mail, if that's how you regularly communicate, then call. Just don't make yourself sound desperate, and good luck

if she said she'll call then email her but wait her call...let her know in ur email that ur waitin her call

email...then the next day call