Womens insight please?

some women are too afraid to hurt your feelings so they hoestly think that this will make it hurt less. i have to admit i have done it in the past, and saw that it made it ten times worse. just because we don't like the guy anymore doesn't mean that we want to purposely crush the other person. honestly how do you tell someone " i found someone else better than you" in a nice way??? either way it still sucks.

relatively? you're in basic terms now understanding which you may stop being a effective guy.... ok, i visit permit you in on somewhat secrete you apparently overlooked: maximum women dream guy is the guy who's a "jerk" lots of the time yet can on the stunning situations nonetheless be "effective". somebody who's in particular a "jerk", yet who will nonetheless cuddle with them and whisper candy issues to them and hear their issues each and every as quickly as and a together as. you have have been given the effective guy section down, so relatively, in basic terms stop doing it each and all the time and you'd be positive. Be a prick like them before everything, and a sturdy element of the time. Then handle them stunning on the stunning moments. on the grounds which you in basic terms isn't out and out abusive, you have got a leg up on different jerks besides. the 1st step, for the record, is kicking this ineffective anchor of a slut out out of your existence.

Like others have said, we don't want to hurt your feelings. We don't want your ego bruised or you to be mad at us or mad at yourselves or any of that. Additionally, it's hard to say that we like someone else because we don't want you to assume we've cheated on you or that he "stole" us from you. Also, the "it's not you it's me" is our way of saying we're not interested any more. The guy hasn't necessarily done anything wrong whatsoever we just... fell out of like, love, lust, whatever.

Because we think that it will let you down slow or something. Sorry about that. I'm sure you wouldn't want to hurt a girl telling you're leaving straight to her face! See what I mean?

We try not to hurt their egos.