When having email relations with someone?

yes, you have to start what you finish. you wouldn't leave for 40 mins in the middle of sex!

If you have done a good job raising your daughter you can trust her decision about having emails. I am not much older and I have a few email addresses. That's normal it doesn't mean she is up to no good. Boundaries are good but remember your own boundaries and respect your daughter for the girl you have raised and love. She will only be more sneaky and secretive if you pry too deeply into her private life. You got to remember in a few years she is an adult and she is just playing grown ups at the moment. If you don't give her too much time alone it might be better. Try having a few special days together and do some activities that she likes. Soon she will be off to college and might even go interstate travelling so just enjoy your time together now.

Yeah it can be unfair but then again I tend to disappear as well as personal things do come up and requires me to step away form the computer. Anyway I'm good with both email and im.

It is unfair. It's also unfair to answer the phone, check on children, eat, sleep, use the toilet, or anything else that might take your attention away from the other person.

I am a needy IM whore.

How rude! The only way that would be acceptable is if in their last email they said "Gotta sign off for half an hour or so, then I'll be back".

Emails - don't care for IM's

I think if your going to be gone for longer then 5 min then you should let them know, not just say "BRB" then be gone for 10+ minutes. I'm sure there are other things that other person would like to do as well.

It's rude to say the least. I've told you not to have email relations with anyone but me based on that simple fact. I would NEVER leave you hangin. I only IM with one person and I'm not even doing it with him now.

R U Joking me...email relations....pleaseeeeee...that is fun for a while, but really I need the real thing, and I know how to keep it around!!

IM's emails take too long

cut em off right before the giblets

you bet it is,i had an im relation with someone and all of a sudden hed leave this on the screen---brb, and im waiting and waiting! then he woud pop back and say,i had to pee! sheesh,put t bottle by your computer if your going to do this! i like im better.