Gals/ladies: When you find the right guy, how long should you wait before assuming control?

You have to start out little by little from the beginning as to not blindside them.

by a months time, they have no clue when it happened... and have learned not to question.

The moment you assume control is the moment we laugh secretly knowing that you are another control freak which is why you girls sit in deep thought about why the relationship went to ruin and he started dating some younger, sexier blonde or brunette. If you treat us like dogs, then a dog we shall become!

assuming control? ah hem... i think that if it is the 'right' guy or girl... then there should be no one 'assuming' control. Why would you want to take control... you wanna screw up the perfect relationship with the 'right' person by taking the reins. Don't be a fag.

O_O! LOL! Mabe I am a little naive, but I would like my man to be able to do what he wants too. You know, an even partnership. I have seen men bossed around and it sucks to see them so castrated and the women so angry, to me this behavior is counter-productive to a good relationship. Men should not boss their GF's around either....

You're right, it's only a matter of time.

If you try to assume control and he refuses, you've lost him immediately.

If you try to assume control and you're successful, you lose him shortly thereafter when he begins hating you.

Lose - Lose situation.

STAR for cracking me up.

My personal experience is that ladies have control from "hello."

Oh honey, I would never wait that long, I'd say 2 seconds

Yeah, I'm usually done after "hello". The control is given to you almost automatically. :)

assuming control?? What do you mean? like take him everywhere you go and make him do things? never

We googled this with our minds, and well, to summarize, above us is dead-on.