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how can i tell the difference between a guy who wants to be friends with me and one who wants to do me?

I am pretty sure they do not all want to sleep with me. So how can I tell? What are some signs?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    just friends:

    -talks to you about girls he likes

    -never even thinks about paying for anything you do

    -brings other people along to hanging out sometimes without remembering to tell you or ask

    -you go over to his house and he's in pjs or boxers or sweats and smells

    -farts in front of you

    -introduces you to friends and family and people no problem

    wants to do you:

    -always somehow ends up sitting next to you at movies and hang outs

    -spends lots of time talking to you rather than just watching tv and stuff

    -makes suggestive comments and then sometimes covers them. "well, if you need someone to come over and shampoo your rug I'm there... I'm just kidding."

    -will hang out like "lets go for coffee" or "want to see a movie?" or something, rather than "want to come over and watch judge judy later?"

    big giant sign he likes you:

    -if he touches you. at all. guys don't touch each other much, it's not something they do with their friends. so if he thinks of you as nothing but a friend, it probably won't occur to him to touch you either. but if he likes you, he will do even little things like touch your arm, or help you onto something, put his hand on your back when you're walking for a second, hug you goodbye.. touching is a major positive sign.

  • 1 decade ago

    To be brutally honest, most guys will imagine sleeping with the majority of women they know, but this is something mostly confined to the mind.

    If we want a woman, we will try to find a way to get physically closer or push the boundaries with flirtatious commentary.

  • 1 decade ago

    im a guy and this is a very good question. allot of guys dont always meet you with the intention to bang you. but wouldnt mind doing so. a guy who does platonic things and doesnt bring up anything sexual might be a hint. but girls are very naive which why i as a guy get jealous when guys really wanna be friends with a lady friend of mine. they think they are sweet and good guys. but other guys being guys knowing our train of thought are like that girl said not exactly the most innocent and want more than that but the girls think its harmless. when a girl goes through something bumpy its usually that guy coming to pick up the slack when your vulnerable..

  • 1 decade ago

    A guy who wants to be friends with you (who truly wants to) will not put you in any situation where u feel uncomfortable sexually. By this I mean he wont intentionally invade your boundaries, or make you feel uncomfortable.

    A guy who wants to be your friend will talk to you more than one who wants the goodies, he will also probably be less flirty too (no bedroom eyes). When you two are together, it wont be overtly intimate.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you're pretty hot then all men want to sleep with you, men don't know how to be friends with hot chicks without really wanting more then just a friendship.

  • 1 decade ago

    i learned a lesson a while ago, that it is really hard to be just friends with a guy. i had a group of friends that was 10 guys and me. we got into a conversation one night and all of them said that they have a least thought of sleeping with me. even the one guy that i thought would have said no. they all think about it, its the ones that act that you have to worry about. you should be able to tell they would probably be more touchy feely with you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    A person who wants to do u wud always be by you. His hands wud be holding some part of your body.

    Also see there body movement and from there you. That tells you alot.

  • 1 decade ago

    Haha, that's pretty funny.

    Every guy who has ever been your 'friend' has wanted to do you. Every guy you have ever talked to has wanted to do you. Every guy who has ever stood behind you at the supermarket checkout has wanted to do you.

    Signs that he would do you : He's a guy.

    Signs that they wouldn't do you : She's not a guy.

    Source(s): A male 'friend' is just biding his time until he can get into your panties.
  • 1 decade ago

    i think i agree with some answers here...

    those who touches u alot is those who wans to b on bed with u...

    but by instinct ull it 1 k

    :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    the way he talks to you

    & the way he kisses you.

    kissing on the neck & ear deffinetly means he wants to ****.

    just making out and his hands aren't moving anywhere and stay on your head around you neck or around your waste - he really likes you.

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