What age do Girls have sex and so forth?

I think its great you think everyone else is to young for having sex. My best friend in middle school had a baby 2 weeks before her 15th birthday. When she told me she was having sex I about passed out. When I was 14 I just kissed my first boy and held a boys hand for the first time.

I was 16, when I had sex for the first time. Now alot of my friends were between 16-17 when they did. I think that was a good age for myself I don't know about them. I can say my boyfriend and I are the only ones still together and its been over 4 years. I think you should def. try to find "Mr. Right" I made my boyfriend wait a while before I said I love you to him, or had sex. He said that is when he realized I wasn't a stupid teen girl. I was mature. And he knew he wanted to be w/ me even more.

He was also a virgin he was 17. Now he is almost 22 and I'm 20 living together, planning on buying a house in the next year along with a wedding in the next 2. and the rest is history!

GOOD LUCK

always be true to yourself!

I'll say continue to be strong willed, and not jump into sex because it's popular.

I will say that the "Mr Right" approach is like from the 1910's, and when you try you to employ this approach in today's day and age, many are often left scarred physiologically.

Sex, is the most natural and beautiful thing, and cannot be "planned" or "mapped" out like building a stadium or something. It's something that if you take some time to know yourself, you'll always be confident that you made the right decision, be it today or 10 yrs from now.

i believe that age doesn't matter when it comes to having sex. i know that sounds wrong, but it is really whenever that person is ready. your mr. right search is a good way to look at it. you're so so young, don't even feel like you need to get it over with. it'll be so much more special if you lose your virginity to a man you love. you have plenty of time, girl. just slow down and let your friends make their own decisions. good luck with everything.

First off I want to say "good for you for not following everyone else in choosing to have sex" You dont need to rush things. Ur not cool or a loser if you dont have sex. Ur respecting ur body and making good choices. Atleast you dont have to worry if you dont get ur period next month if you could be pregnant right? Or worry about STDs. You have your whole like to have sex why not enjoy being a young teen and doing other things. It is deffinity NORMAL to not have sex at 14. Keep up the good work

I've never met anyone who ever said, "I wish I had sex earlier." I was 18 my first time and even that, looking back, was too young. It wasn't so much age I guess, but the person I was with. It wasn't worth it. Most of my friends waited until at least 18. Not everyone is doing it, no matter what they say. And if you ask them when they are older, they will probably tell you they wish they had waited.

to you and abby(the first poster) congrats on waiting to have sex! your making very good choices to wait!! alot of girls are starting much to early! i think it is a very sad situation that these girls dont stop and think about what they are doing! they wind up having sex and then worry they are pregnant and dont have any clue as to what to do!! they then have to turn to the parents to raise and support the grandchildren because they lose interest very quickly after the baby is born. they want to be out hanging with their friends! they cant support the child because they dont finish school or there is no child support coming in and they cant find good paying jobs so they have to depend on the the tax payers and the state to help them out!! honey yes do remain a virgin and enjoy being a teen. time goes so fast and before you know it those years are gone and your an adult facing many challenges and responsibilties!! you and abby both sound like good responsible teens!!! good luck to ya hon!! i know your parents must be proud!!!

The ages on average people are starting to have sex now is between 13-16. Very sad.

Heya

Thats a really good approach to sex and i think you should wait for mr right =]

i was 16 but one of my best mates was 13 which i personally think was much to young. I actually told her but she didnt listen =[ so its her own fault really if she gets pregnant or catches an sti . xxx

Well, for first thing, I say that the English isn’t my language, excuse me for mistakes.

Well, I think than, for the first time, there isn’t an age, we do sex when we are ready, a person is ready when she/he is 13, other persons more late. Is important our partner, if he wonna only your vagina, he isn’t the good boyfriend. The first time is magic end be obliged to be magic, not a terrible. We need be ready, relax and we owe wont this(do sex). You are the boss of your body! bye

you are 14 and you are right... you should definitely wait until you meet someone who is worth it... don't think you are too old you are young.. you should wait.. you will meet the right guy and then the right time will come along automatically and you both will know it... just don't forget to practise safe sex.. you don't want to get pregnant until you have finished school and have some job education...that does not mean you have to wait until you are 20 to be intimate but wait for the right guy and go see a gyneacologist.. talk to your mom about the pill... that will prevent unwanted pregnancy...talk about it when you met a nice guy..

until then wait.. your time will come..

Good luck