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Ever just want to pack up and leave everything behind you?
I ask because, I'm a situation, were I love someone but we go back & forth. This person is my greatest weakness. This has been going on for about 4 years now. The relationship eats & kills me everyday. What also makes this worse is that were best friends. We roommate with another person, who doesn't have a clue of what's going on. So it's not easy for me to see my interest everday. We love God, and we know it's wrong. It's constant battle everday. My job sucks. I feel like my life is going no where. Lately I feel like I just wanna pack up my stuff get in my car and never come back. I know if I did this, it would kill this other person. I'm not selfish, I'm just thinking about my heart and feelings. Love makes you do crazy things, I've given my ALL to this person. I cannot go on living without or seeing my "interest" everday and knowing they'll end up with someone else. This hurts me really bad. I feel like just packing up and leaving and starting a new life in another state.
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
if you pack and run then you probably will have many more problems in the next place as this is your life and up to you to start making changes one at a time now where you are living. this is all part of life with the world. you can run but you cant hide. fix it now yourself with a i can and will do it attitude.start by finding a new job.
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Ever just want to pack up and leave everything behind you?
I ask because, I'm a situation, were I love someone but we go back & forth. This person is my greatest weakness. This has been going on for about 4 years now. The relationship eats & kills me everyday. What also makes this worse is that were best friends. We roommate with another person, who...
Source(s): pack leave you: https://shortly.im/bMNwV - alLv 61 decade ago
Yes I have felt that way and a couple of times carried through with the running away. Guess what; it did not help because unfortunately the problem was me and you can not run away from yourself. Deal with what is going on and THEN go on with your life. You will have fewer regrets. Good luck.
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- 1 decade ago
Love should not hurt. Move on. It may seem like the world will end at first, but then time heals all wounds. She does not sound like the one for you.
Life short and too precious to waste. Try dating other women.
- 1 decade ago
i literally had that same situation 2 weeks ago. You know what i had done? i called it off with her, it was very very VERY difficult for me, but i had the courage to do so in the end.after that, my job got better, because i could flirt with girls again. actually, a few days after i saw this girl in Famous Footwear (my job), and ended up gettingher number and now we are getting coffee pretty soon. Good Luck!
- dreamweaverLv 71 decade ago
Its time to move on for your own sanity love hurts but this sounds like you are stuck in a rut and this doesnt sound like this relationship is going anywhere. maybe you will meet someone new and get a better job
- Anonymous1 decade ago
yes, alot. but its no good. you're only running from your problems. you need to take some time away and fix yourself. this is why after my first year of uni is finished im gonna go teach in china for 9 mths. i need time to sort myself out. gd luck.
- 1 decade ago
You say you are best friends, yet the relationship seems not to be healthy for you. When you fall flat on your back you'll wake up. SMOOCHES.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
people feel like that all the time,,,,sounds like you need a little alone time,,,,go on vacation, then come back. better yet, go on vacation with this person, get a different view of things, it might change your perspectives.