i am in2 an affair with a married man thou my religion permits it,he wants to mary cos he has no male child?

To him, you are just one of his baby making machines.. and if this is what you want, be prepared for the consequences of being the second.. what happens if it is a female again.. are you prepared to be treated just like the first?..

I've had a affair with a married man for 3 years until his wife found out and he STILL wanted to be with me but I moved 1,000 miles away from him and he can NOT located me....

I'm 22 and he is 56 married to his 2nd wife of 22 years and has 2 kids.

So what you're saying is your marriage is "contingent" upon you physically being able to produce a male child. And if you can't give birth to a male child, then what does your religion say? Does you religion permit your husband to beat you or kick you and your baby girl out if you can't give birth to a male child? What exactly will you do if you can't give birth to a male child? Or what will you do if you can't give birth AT ALL?

religion or not believe that the worse thing that can happen to you is to be the other woman, the experience is not funny at all, this man want you purposely because of a male child and if you fail to give him one, he will surely treat you so badly that you will regret ever going into such relationship.

let me also add that the idea is barbaric.

Move away from China immediately

your having an affair with a married man, so why get married ? just give him a son.

What you are doing is called adultery and it's wrong. Put yourself in his wife's shoes, and think about how she feels. Think about how you would feel if you were married and your husband did this to you.

well you must not be in America so i would guess that is ok with your religion then by all means have the kid for him, sounds like you are a concubine

well, a religion that endorses for to blow yourself up in populated place to take as many others as you can, i'm sure they allow adultery as well. it's not surprising.

do what you gotta do.

WHAT KIND OF RELIGION IS THAT.... I THOUGHT THEY WHERE ALL BASED ON BASIC MORALS!!??? U KNOW... RIGHT AND WRONG....GOOD AND BAD... ? NVM!