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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

girlfriends tonight?

been invited around my girlfriends tonight. her parents and brothers are all away for the weekend so we will have the house to ourselves.

now before i start id like to say im 3 years older than y girlfriend whose 19, we have been together for 4 weeks and we havnt previously had sex.

my question is to the ladies out there.

What would you think if i did or did not try summit on tonight?

if i didnt would you think i wasnt interested or would you think i was being respectful?

if i did would you take it as a compliment that im turned on by you or would you think im only after one thing?

note: if i did try summit id obviously be prepared with protection etc, just wanting a few ladies opinions please.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    k so I think if she invited you over, knowing you'd be alone, she mite want it.... I'd ask if she's ready but make it clear that if not it's fine with you to wait... I know i'd expect something to happen if I invited my bf over to be alone...

  • 1 decade ago

    YOU SAID THAT YOU ALL HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ONLY 4 WEEKS AND THERE IS ALOT OF SEX, ARE YOU MAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think you all should have gotton to know each other first before you all rush into the bedroom...... She just want you over so that you all can make out and that's all, you really think that she want you over so that you can watch a movie, eat popcorn and sleep in separate bedrooms......... I don't think so.... Yes you have to try and make her happy but let her know that what you all are doing is not right and you all should take the speed limit with this relationship down a bit..... come on man you suppose to be the adult one here, but then I guess you are of the male species and sex is vital and important to you

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Be prepared with protection. Don't push her (which it sounds like you won't)...maybe just cuddle and kiss. 4 weeks isn't that long to have been together and start having sex. Sure, people do it all the time but you have to know what's right for you and her...maybe talk to her a little more about it....hope this helps

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well neither of you are very young and a month is a fine time to get to know each other. I think she has her own intentions. She did invite you over while there's not going to be anyone else home, she knows what to expect ;)

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  • 1 decade ago

    Im not a lady but you better hit that homey you would do all the guys in the world a diservice if you didnt, we were sent here to do those things so do you

  • 1 decade ago

    i think you should try somethin but if it seems obvious she's not keen don't push it. im guessin if uve bin invited round while everyone is out then she's prob got sex on the mind! but u cant b sure so if she doesn't seem up for it ul jus hav to wait til shes ready x

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    **** it mate giver her a song if you leans on to you or touches you in a sexual way, then your in, if she stays clear and just kisses u back then leave it a while, and if she leads oyu to the bedroom well, no need 2 say aymore lol gud luck x

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you have only been going out a month! i'm not saying you shouldn't 'explore' each others bodies, but sex isn't the answer. wait for a bit, make it special.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well i think that you would be interested and respectful and not after one thing because if you were that type of guy you would've by now. their ought to be more guys out their like you.

  • 1 decade ago

    I'd say you were respectful.

    Thanks for not being a perverted freak who only wants sex.

    :-) Have a nice day (-:

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