am i in the wrong?

Interesting that you're husband wants no evidence of you being sexy and wants nothing to do with pleasing you sexually, but wants everything to do with pleasing HIMSELF which doesn't involve you at all. Life is all about him isn't it?

Hell no you're not wrong. Don't you dare get rid of those beautiful pics of yourself. You need to preserve them for someone who will appreciate them, like your next husband.

Well you didnt mention who took the pics of you... was an old boyfriend involved with the picture taking? if so that might be the problem.

If not Im not sure why he would be bothered of pics of you, he should be checking them out..

Maybe find a compromise, tell your husband you want him to take some new sexy pics of you, and then get rid of the old ones...

The porn thing i dont know, some men just like porn and that should of been an issue you dealt with before the pics became an issue. So if your strongly against porn then have a talk about it with him, if you have never had a problem with him watching it before and your only trying to use it to your advantage with the pics then thats really not a fair thing to do...

Just find a compromise in this... something that will make both people happy.

Keep them.

Put them away in a closet and pull them out to remind the fool ( if you are still with him) in ten years what he had once.

My wife had a full spread of budoir photos done as a 40th birthday present.

15 years later she still looks great in them. Its the gift that keeps on giving.

It also goes to the question , "Do you throw out the baby pictures?" I mean you probably have some of those bare butt...........

Sexy pictures of you that do not include anyone else? Why isn't he using those as his porn? Your husband is odd.

There are few pictures of me that were taken prior to marriage that my husband just loves. He has them stashed away for "special" moments.

It seems like a fair deal. Pornography is probably part of the problem that he isn't coming to you anymore so you might kill two birds with one stone.

Why can't he just keep your sexy pitcures and get rid of his porn? It sounds like the problem is with him not you.

You are married to a control freak...don't get rid of pics that were taken before he came along...and especially if he can't agree to get rid of the smut that he enjoys looking at...

I wouldn't do it just to "keep him happy"....obviously he doesn't want to keep you happy if doesn't want to part with his porn...

Hi Baby, no I think you should keep them. Heck with what he says.

NO you are definitely not wrong...

stick you your deal - his porn for your pics..

don't give in - you go girl

keep the pics

i agree completely with your thoughts of how you looked....

my wife used to do lingerie modeling and we kept all her pics