Tell me why I should stop obsessing over my EX bf....?

See this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rp198k984Yw

This guy will give you his 2 cents.

To guy below: Chris Crocker...I was going to say something on his "codependency" rant but I thought I might as well show you. He is a gay man but I thought he expressed himself well..

Hey, I think you should do some research into addiction behaviour. I heard recently that texting and blogging and being satisfied or sad and depressed is a topic that the experts are looking at... you could be experiencing the same endorphins rush that other addicts experience. If that is the case than you are not obsessed with the old BF but just to the attention you are seeking. Just food for thought as I'm no expert. Another thing to consider...if you had sex with him then you are experiencing endorphins that will bond you to him. This is natural (it is called the marriage hormone in some circles). It is meant to happen so that a woman will want to cling to a man...have sex with too many men and you will damage this part of you. If you need a councilor to help figure this out then you should see someone. If you really think it was for the best that you stopped seeing him then why not explore these other ideas. Might save you a lot of heartache.

if you have to ask you need counseling. Honey life is tooooo short and if you dwell on the past and let people bring you down you will never be happy. Never will you prosper, Do yourself a favor and move onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. You deserve better. This in not healthy. Take a day to cry it out scream call him and curse him out and then after that day move onnnnnnnn

move on move on move on

obviously you broke up with him in the first place for a certain reason...your just being jealous...to be honest you should just move on...it doesnt seem like he wants you back if hes off with some one else already

Think of the reasons you broke up with him in the first place

Get another boyfriend

Its a natural thing that many emotional females (like myself) go through. You have to constantly tell yourself that he doesnt want you anymore. What i do is I try to picture them as the bad guy and tell myself that he didnt want me anyway and that he doesnt deserve me. In a weird way, that always seems to work for me.

its natural to be jealous because obviously if you were going out with him you had feelings for him at one point and to see him with another girl probably hurts.. u cant really control what you want or what you think about honestly from experience but keep your heart open to other guys and dont let him distract you from the millions of other guys out there... :)

cons list. just cons. mak a note of how pointless pining is & do new stuff to interest & ecite you throwing in th way of new pople. all about the new & perhaps have alook around for anyone eles u like, hell ur free now.

Because it probably makes you look pathetic, which is even more ego-bruising.

get out and meet a new hottter guy!!that will take your mind off him for sure and dont hang out where he does so you dont run into him..