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Unusual Relationship Help?

I have been friends with this girl for a very long time. I have grown to have very deep feelings for this Girl. She is my co-worker and we kinda have a Jim and Pam thing going on (If watch the Office). I had planed to tell her how i feel about her. However i didn't because she recently had found out that her dad is dieing of cancer and its going to kill him in 3 months. I thought it be very selfish of me to bring up now. The only thing is where going to going different colleges next year and i figured this it. Right now i decided it was best that i not tell her and I help her as much as i can to get through this awful time and that is was selfish of me to even consider thinking of telling her this.

What do you guys or girls think??????

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    yeah man..

    just be a freind for her for the time being and when things have cooled down with everything then bring up how you feel..

    different colloeges dont mean jack..

    as long as she like you too and is honest and truth full you wont have a problem..

    take it easy

    Dan the man

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you probably cant expect much to happen if you're going to different colleges, but you really need to be there as her friend to get through her dads sickness.

    unfortunately i think you have to put any thoughts of a relationship aside and be her friend for now

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