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Is there a connection between being gay and being molested by a same-sex adult as a child?
I have a nephew who, as a child, we think may have been molested by a male relative. When my nephew visited me a couple years ago, he used my computer and afterward we had a lot of problems with porn pop-ups. When I looked at the Internet history, I found he had looked at some sites which showed gay sex (men). Do you think being molested by someone of the same sex makes someone more likely to turn out to be gay? I don't mean to offend anyone. Please answer only if you have personal experience of if you are a researcher or mental health professional with experience in this area. Thank you.
12 Answers
- LillyLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
In my experience....no. I have never been molested by someone of the same sex and to my knowledge, none of my homosexual friends have either. I am sure that some people have that sort of history in their past, but I don't think that their homosexuality is dependent on that factor : )
- Anonymous5 years ago
I think you're right. I was never molested by anyone, and I turned out to be a normal, natural lesbian. We know that the vast majority of pedophiles are heterosexual, that is a documented fact. So I think you're onto something here..... how do we get a research grant for this study? Where are our socio-science geeks?
- 1 decade ago
I was molested by a older male friends father when I was twelve, and I have no inclinations towards men. although someone that is molested at a younger developmental age may be affected differently. it always varies depending on circumstances.
- 1 decade ago
NO it can't mean your gay because my sis was molested at the age of 12 and she was already developed so she ended up pregnant by her step dad she never turned bi or lez cuz of it. seriously she ended up wanting to screw everyguy she can that she likes.
Being molested is a hard thing to deal with but it won't turn you gay it confuses you and maybe it wasn't him with the porn on the computer it could be someone else in the family maybe a guy or girl in the household.
Not trying to offend anyone in the house or you for the matter. But you jump to conclusions that he did it when you don't know for sure don't be mad at me
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
The jury is still out on possible influences that lead to sexual orientation. So far, there are far too many exceptions to any theory to say one is more or less likely than another.
There is some evidence that whoever our first (pleasant) sexual encounter is with tends to imprint us as to who we seek out for future relationships. But many studies say that while being molested isn't all that uncommon, there doesn't seem to be any pattern as to who the person's preferences are later in life.
Every inmate in the state prison masturbates or has done so. But it's faulty logic to say that masturbating leads to a life of crime, since the same is true of every one NOT in prison. A broken watch is right twice a day.
- 1 decade ago
Well, NO, being molested doesn't make a person gay, but it can definitely leave one CONFUSED, especially if it happens when you're really young and you don't have anyone to talk to about it. My Ex-Step-Dad is a really good example of this.
But I would say that....probably 99% of gay men were NOT molested.
- nubiangeekLv 61 decade ago
That may be, but I also see a correlation between sexual abuse and promiscuous behavior with heterosexuals as well.
- ManiakaLv 51 decade ago
I think so.... 2 of my 3 gay friends were molested or had some kind of accident like that when they were little... and i ve know of many other cases of ppl that turn to be like that.. so ill say yes
- SnowLv 51 decade ago
Yes , and they are messed up in the head because they only think they are gay and they are not. Causes lots of problems.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
No. There is no correlation.