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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

I don't know if I should date this guy because I'm full figured?

I'm full figured and this guy likes me and yes, I like him but I don't know if I should date him just yet because we'd look a little odd together since he is thinner than I am and more in shape. Should I date him anyway? I don't know what to tell him for now.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You have to be comfortable with yourself before you can be in a successful relationship. Fake it til you make it is what I think. Fake being confident and feel like absolutely you deserve him, because I'm sure you do. He likes you for who you are and so should you. So, go for it. Don't miss out on something because you feel down on yourself. Life is too short!

  • 5 years ago

    you locate the splendid guy at a place which you're feeling delicate going to. Why do you care what different individuals think of of you. in case you think of which you're a greater woman and you do no longer like it then you definately concentration on for your self. in case you're a greater woman and you elect to me a guy then circulate to a place which you're feeling delicate going to because of the fact in many cases you will locate somebody that has quite a few a similar hobbies as you so as which you've something to talk approximately. So in case you like examining......then circulate to a e book shop or a library....etc.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well I am probably the only person here who says no. Maybe this sounds to cruel or unrealistic, but I think you shouldn't go out with him if your not comfortable with yourself. It is terrible to be in a relationship and have doubts about yourself. you may get jealous or insecure about your relationship(depending on how much your weight bothers you). Im full figured myself and waited a long time to date because i wanted a healthy relationship (and maybe shed a few lbs). It was the best thing for me to do, because now Im a lot more comfortable with myself and him

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't worry about what other's think of you. If other's want to think badly about you then they are shallow and shouldn't matter and maybe even jealous about your relationship. If you like a guy then don't let image ever hold you back. Being together is about 2 people coming together to surport eachother with love. If you don't go out just coz of what people will think of you, you could be missing out on love and that would be a shame. He is probably an awesome guy.

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  • 1 decade ago

    yes you should, because looks to other people shouldnt play a factor in your decision. If you are happy, thats all that matters. If your friends say something about how you look, then maybe thay arent your friends, but its totally up 2 u, but i say take the chance.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Woman what is the matter with you? Of course you should date him, do you know how many couples I see everyday that do not go together but you know what it does not matter what I think, what matters is what the couple thinks and if you like this guy and he likes you, do not let what other people think interfere with your chance for happiness.

  • 1 decade ago

    why does what you look like matter? Do you like him? Does he like you? Does he make you feel special? Can you see being with him long-term? Do the people who matter to you like him? These things matter. How tall or short or slim or thick only matters when you're measuring for clothing. Go for it, and know that you're beautiful. As long as he knows it and YOU know it, who cares what anyone else thinks?

    'Nuff said

  • 1 decade ago

    Worrying how you look together is both paranoid and vain. What matters is how you get along and enjoy each other's company. Don't worry about silly stuff like that. Have fun.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Omgosh girl just go for it. Size and shape don't mean anything in a relationship if you really like him and really care for him. Have some fun! :P

  • 1 decade ago

    To hell with that! Date the man! Who cares what jerks think of how you look together? You shouldn't. Your only concern is how it goes with Mr. Svelt hotbod Handsomeface.

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