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should i stay or should i go?
i've been married for 3 years and after i got pregnant i found out my husband had a drug problem perkaset, vikaden, oxycotton, and smoking pot. we have had many talks and fights about how we have a child now and i'm not ok with him using around my son. so one time i found a pill right next to my son on the ground which could have killed him so i kicked my husband out! but eventually i took him back and he tried rehab but didn't stay long my son is now two and sometimes i smell pot and my husband always denies it tonight i picked up his phone and he had recieved an incoming text that said " i have 3 left do you want to meet up" and i checked his coat pocket and found a pipe with pot resin in it thing is i'm in college and i don't have any family in the state to help me out . the only family i do have is a sister in another state. so should i stick it out till i finish school which i will graduate from in 9 months
i don't want to put my son in harm's way what if my husband was to be uncareful again and my son got ahold of his drugs he is 2 he gets into everything
k now i'm really freaking out i just found a huge perscription bottle of oxycotin and a bag of weed
he has lied so many times in the past about wanting to quit and trying to get help and ofcourse he says the same thing to me this time but supposedly he is under doctor supervision this time and they are weening him off the drugs should i stick with him and try to help him get off of drugs cuz when you marry some one it is supposed to be through thick and thin i'm so confused
because i kicked him out last night but now i feel horrible
5 Answers
- JenniferLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
Um...I don't think you should wait until you finish college, I don't think you need to let your son need his dad, I know he is his dad and all, but still he isn't thinking of his son at all, when all he wants to do is drugs.
- kittykatsbackLv 51 decade ago
Search for someone renting a room out that will accommodate a child. Just explain it is temporary and you can do housework or help out the owner to compensate.
I am sorry to say, but YOU are putting your son in harm's way by leaving him with a pill popper. There is something wrong with those people. I would even consider sending my child to my sister. This is serious, you really need to deal with it, like yesterday.
- 1 decade ago
he needs drug counseling...he is wayyyyy over his head and will not curb his addicitions without help...help the father of yur child get clean and sober but you can't make him...he has to want to also
- 1 decade ago
sounds like your husband doesnt care about his child. you have given him enough chances, now your the one taking the chances with your child.
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- Cyclist 2300Lv 71 decade ago
could you transfer..... to a college where your sister lives.
you might have to forfeit this semester.... but better than lossing your child to a stupid accident just because your husband can't control his life.